Going offline for an indeterminate period of time:
from jordanlund@lemmy.world to world@lemmy.world on 16 Jan 2026 03:05
https://lemmy.world/post/41687242

Some of you know I was offline for a bit this week for surgery. What you didn’t know (and what I didn’t know until about 2 hours ago) is that the surgery has uncovered cancer.

I’m intentionally using “c” cancer and not “C” Cancer because 6 months ago the biopsies I had done were pre-cancerous with no sign of cancer proper.

So, whatever it is, it developed in the last 6 months and I take that as a good sign.

From here I need to focus on doing what the docs tell me to do starting with blood tests tomorrow, then we’re doing genetic stuff and a CT scan, that will tell us the official “stage” of the cancer.

My plan is to come back, but it won’t be immediate and I don’t (yet) have any sort of timeline. My ideas are probably more aggressive than the doctors and insurance will allow. 😉

So I’m planning on the worst, doing paperwork, advanced directives, all the stuff you don’t usually have to think about. Then we’ll see where it goes.

I wish Lemmy all the luck in the world!

Edit

OK - met with the surgeon. At a minimum it’s stage 2 (invasive) with the potential for stage 3 (in the lymph nodes).

We won’t know until they remove the sigmoid colon (all of it) and the related lymph nodes and have it all checked.

Scheduler is going to call me, right now it’s looking like 3 to 5 weeks out, so late Feb. or early March.

Potential to move me up because cancer patients have priority.

If it’s stage 2, no further action needed, surgery fixes it.

If it’s stage 3, that requires chemotherapy, but we won’t know that until after the surgery.

Edit 2

Surgery is scheduled for 2/19. It was going to be 2/11, but they decided they need more time to review the drugs I’m on and figure out which ones to stop and when.

Edit 3

Doing the last bits of surgery prep tonight, reporting to the hospital tomorrow. Estimate is 3 days in then back home.

Edit 4

Edit 5

Surgery on the 19th went well, I have 4 laparoscopic scars on my belly and it seems well contained. But if I cough, it’s like I want to die.

Day 1 - 3 were kind of tough with all the tubes running in and out of me, it all dramatically improved on day 4 with removing the catheter.

Apparently they were confused why someone with a heparin blood thinner drip would be bleeding internally in their urethra. I’m like “Hey, I’m no doctor, but maybe the catheter has something to do with that?” 🤔

They were worried about blood clots blocking urine flow and didn’t want to remove the catheter only to have to put it back in.

Saner heads prevailed, the catheter was removed, and the bleeding stopped immediately. No worries on the bathroom front, all clear and blood free!

Plan is to cut me loose in the morning! Just in time to visit my wife on her rehab ward for a 5 hour caregiver training.

Training I won’t immediately be able to do because, surgery, but good to have it for when I am able!

Now, we wait for lab results for the cancer stage. Minimum stage 2, which is why we did the surgical intervention.

If it somehow got into the lymph system, that’s stage 3 and I’ll be back in for chemo.

Results take 5-7 days from the 19th soooo … 2/24 to 2/26 we’ll get the word on that!

#world

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RumorsOfLove@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 16 Jan 2026 03:23 next collapse

Good luck, stay strong, dont forget to have fun

jordanlund@lemmy.world on 16 Jan 2026 03:34 collapse

Working on it!

mysticpickle@lemmy.ca on 16 Jan 2026 03:30 next collapse

Lots of love brother, stay strong! ❤️

Rentlar@lemmy.ca on 16 Jan 2026 03:37 next collapse

Best of luck, godspeed, hope to hear from you again sometime with good news.

DudeImMacGyver@kbin.earth on 16 Jan 2026 04:03 next collapse

Fuck cancer, kick it in the nuts for us!

JeeBaiChow@lemmy.world on 16 Jan 2026 05:00 next collapse

Do the necessary, friend. Best wishes and speedy recovery from malaysia.

cecilkorik@piefed.ca on 16 Jan 2026 05:08 next collapse

Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. Good luck!

Skiluros@sh.itjust.works on 16 Jan 2026 07:04 next collapse

Good luck! All the best for your health!

Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works on 16 Jan 2026 07:11 next collapse

Sending hexes and curses to every cancer cell in your body.

Leave our mod alone, you nasty things, nobody wants you here! You fucking useless deformed parasites! Shrivel up and die! And don’t take any of the good cells with you, you don’t deserve them!

jordanlund@lemmy.world on 16 Jan 2026 09:21 collapse

I’ll take it! 😉

nogooduser@lemmy.world on 16 Jan 2026 10:05 next collapse

Look after yourself and good luck.

_Nico198X_@europe.pub on 16 Jan 2026 10:25 next collapse

i don’t know who you are, but i wish you all the best!

indomara@lemmy.world on 16 Jan 2026 11:15 next collapse

Wishing you a boring and uneventful complete recovery from Australia ❤️

Mothra@mander.xyz on 16 Jan 2026 14:47 next collapse

Good luck with everything!

BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today on 16 Jan 2026 15:31 next collapse

Best of luck, you have more support than you know.

HowRu68@lemmy.world on 16 Jan 2026 16:48 next collapse

Tnx for your Post, and imo it’s courageous to lay it all out in the open. Didn’t know you had been hospitalised earlier, though I suspected something. Wishing you a speedy recovery, Courage, strength and all the best.

perestroika@slrpnk.net on 17 Jan 2026 13:11 next collapse

I hope you get decisively rid of this illness, and wish you luck. :)

melsaskca@lemmy.ca on 17 Jan 2026 13:29 next collapse

Sorry to hear this. All the best to you.

MoreMagic@feddit.nu on 18 Jan 2026 13:30 next collapse

Sorry to hear. Sending virtual power hug from Sweden. Looking forward to see you here again!

jordanlund@lemmy.world on 18 Jan 2026 16:32 collapse

Speaking of Sweden… I just blew through all the Simon Stålenhag books. Good reads with gorgeous art!

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simon_Stålenhag

www.simonandschuster.com/books/…/9781982150693

www.simonandschuster.com/books/…/9781982150716

www.simonandschuster.com/books/…/9781501181412

www.simonstalenhag.se/labyrinth.html

www.simonandschuster.com/books/…/9781668096413

(published outside the US as “Swedish Machines”)

www.simonstalenhag.se

MoreMagic@feddit.nu on 18 Jan 2026 20:54 collapse

Ooh, I had almost forgotten - I’ve intended to read them, ever since I saw some examples a couple of years ago. Thanks for the reminder! I hope he’ll do some movie collaboration one day, I think that could end up in something really innovative.

jordanlund@lemmy.world on 18 Jan 2026 21:13 collapse

Tales From the Loop got adapted for Amazon Prime and Electric State was adapted for Netflix. I enjoyed Electric State, but other than the name, look, and feel, it didn’t really adapt the book.

Haven’t seen Tales From the Loop yet.

Sunset at Zero Point likely couldn’t get made in the current political environment due to it being a sweet gay romance book. Think sci-fi version of “Moonlight.”

MoreMagic@feddit.nu on 19 Jan 2026 00:35 collapse

Wow, exciting to hear! I had no idea. Gotta check these out next time I sign up for a subscription period.

theacharnian@lemmy.ca on 21 Jan 2026 00:24 next collapse

Hope you beat this thing as quickly and smoothly as possible, so I can be annoyed at your modding style again! Jokes aside, take care, all the best wishes for a successful recovery that is very boring and predictable.

jordanlund@lemmy.world on 21 Jan 2026 01:17 collapse

I had to call THREE hospitals to get a CT scan in a reasonable amount of time. First one said “April” and I was like “No.”

2nd one said 2/18 which is better, but still 29 days out and I don’t want to sit and ruminate on the diagnosis that long.

3rd one? 1 week. 1/27! I think that’s about as good as I can get.

idyllic@feddit.cl on 23 Jan 2026 11:42 next collapse

Hey brother. Get well soon. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

MadBits@europe.pub on 01 Feb 2026 14:08 next collapse

Good luck, friend! All the best wishes and stay strong. If you ever need someone to talk to, we are here.

filister@lemmy.world on 06 Feb 2026 04:06 next collapse

Oh man, this sucks. Fuck cancer!

I wish you all the best and I know you will win this fight. Stay strong, brother!

QuirkyRaccoon1156@lemmy.world on 10 Feb 2026 05:20 collapse

Stage 3 blood cancer survivor here. I did 6 months of chemo. If I can do it, you can too my man. Keep your head up and stay strong. You WILL make it through this and you are much stronger than you think you are!!

jordanlund@lemmy.world on 10 Feb 2026 05:49 collapse

Hey, I survived Spinal Stenosis, Charcot Foot, 2 heart attacks, open heart surgery, congestive heart failure, a stent, 3rd degree full thickness burns and skin grafts, nothing scares me any more… but I am just so very, very, tired. 🙁

QuirkyRaccoon1156@lemmy.world on 10 Feb 2026 15:54 collapse

Heard. Damn.