Single-sex toilets must exclude transgender people, says Equality and Human Rights Commission (www.theguardian.com)
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FiniteBanjo@feddit.online on 21 May 21:05 next collapse

The EHRC is a government commission in the United Kingdom.

ccunning@lemmy.world on 21 May 21:06 next collapse

Single-sex toilets and changing rooms in England, Wales and Scotland must exclude transgender men and women, according to a new code of practice from the equalities watchdog.

But the long-awaited guidance also says that businesses and service providers have to offer practical alternatives such as gender-neutral toilets for people who do not wish to use services for their biological sex.

I guess I’m naive to hope that a business would rather convert existing facilities to two multi-sex bathrooms rather than have to build and give up existing space to a third bathroom.

bl4ckp1xx13@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 21 May 21:49 next collapse

I hate, with a burning passion, the term “biological sex”.

We have frankly, no fucking clue how our genetics and gender are intertwined.

We used to think it was “just chromosomes”, but then we discovered “biological men” with double-X, or double-X and a Y, or vice-versa.

Or intersex individuals.

Then, we also got to consider that, say, a “biological woman” can transition to a “transgender man”, which renders no change to their genes, just hormone levels, and they see physical development, voice deepening, hair growth, etc, just like a “biological man”, or vice-versa.

In conclusion, “biological sex” is just another gross simplification created by people who’s minds are so pathetic they can’t comprehend reality and so choose to live by mantra founded in disproven pseudo-sciences, religion, and other excuses to avoid critical thinking, and then put themselves in positions of power.

venusaur@lemmy.world on 21 May 21:56 next collapse

I totally understand what you’re saying, but if you take gender out of it and just think about humans as any other animal, you could classify animals with penises and animals with vaginas separately especially if you’re breeding them. The AI overlords won’t care when they’re breeding us.

EDIT: two types of genitalia instead of just penis and vagina. And not all but many animals.

frongt@lemmy.zip on 21 May 22:26 next collapse

…and animals with both, and animals with neither, and…

venusaur@lemmy.world on 21 May 23:42 next collapse

Sure but you can classify the ones with just two types of genitalia as something or another. Doesn’t mean you can’t have other layers of classification.

frongt@lemmy.zip on 22 May 00:45 collapse

That’s tautological.

venusaur@lemmy.world on 22 May 06:28 collapse

So you’re saying it’s true

tar@lemmy.zip on 22 May 11:30 collapse

tautologies are necessarily true, but usually not useful. for instance, I am either a bot or I am not. strictly true, but not a helpful statement.

Steve@startrek.website on 21 May 23:44 collapse

Not saying anything about humans, but animals meant for breeding would be… removed if they were like that

meco03211@lemmy.world on 21 May 22:29 next collapse

Here’s the thing though, pretty much everything you just said is wrong. It’s not that simple if you think of humans as any other animal. Here’s a video link that is pretty long, but dives fairly deep into this topic that is massive from a scientific point of view.

youtu.be/nVQplt7Chos

venusaur@lemmy.world on 21 May 23:40 next collapse

Woah. I don’t have an hour and a half to dissect all the ways an animal with a penis and an animal with a vagina may not fit the standard classifications of male and female. Not discrediting that there are so many different life forms out there that can’t possibly just be two categories, but you also can’t say that “pretty much everything I said is wrong.” If I wanna breed dogs, I’m gonna need two types of genitalia. Elephants? Same. Salmon? Ducks? Lots of animals can be classified in that way. Not all their characteristics, but their reproductive traits for sure.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:47 collapse

Yeah but toilets and changing rooms aren’t for reproduction.

If you go entirely by who has a penis or not, at least you allow some post operative trans people to live freely, but I’m not going to be checking any genitals at the toilet door, nor doing any blood tests for that matter.

This guidance deliberately leaves trans people with two bad options: go in one toilet and be harassed or attacked for being trans or go in another and risk being attacked legally.

venusaur@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:49 collapse

Agreed. Just commenting on biological sex. The law sucks.

powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 17:55 collapse

That’s a shit video. Here’s a deconstruction:

link.springer.com/article/…/s10508-025-03348-3

TheMuffinMan@piefed.world on 22 May 00:22 collapse

I’m not entirely sure what point you’re making, when sex reassignment surgery exists.

Not all trans people get it, sure, but many trans men have dicks and many trans women have vaginas. These usually align cosmetically but will have functional differences to their cis counterparts. Where would you crudely sort such people?

There’s also genital nullification surgery (think Barbie doll - nothing at all).

venusaur@lemmy.world on 22 May 06:33 collapse

All good. I’m referring to the comment that I replied to stating that they don’t like the term “biological sex.” Not saying that trans people should be bucketed into being men or women based on their goodies. I’m saying that biologically, across many animals, specifically mammals, we can say something has this kind of genitalia or that. Call it male or female. Call it bapu and beepo. It’s a biological difference that can be classified along with other traits.

TheMuffinMan@piefed.world on 22 May 07:34 next collapse

Gotcha. Their point is kind of right though; sex is less of a strict binary category and more 2 clusters we (people) created that allow us to more easily classify specimens based on strongly correlated traits. Both clusters have some overlap, and no trait on its own completely determines the cluster.

E.g. I knew a case of this woman who grew up her whole life never knowing she has XY chromosomes, because she had seemingly typical female sex characteristics. It was only when she and her husband where struggling to conceive and they went to a fertility clinic, that that fact came to light. “Biological male” might be the cluster you’d want to put her under, but she lacks many of the features of that cluster, so in that case the binary classification is a little weak.

Of course most people/animals are not intersex (or transitioned), but the point is that the biological sex binary is kind of a shorthand / way of making life easier to classify most of the population, but it’s not perfect or tidy.

The easiest way to stay accurate is to just narrow down to the specific relevant trait (“person with facial hair”, “person with androgenetic alopecia”, etc.) depending on what specifically is measured/being talked about. But being that precise can come at the expense of being less clear/accessible to the layman, which is why we use biological sex as a concept.

venusaur@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:48 next collapse

For sure. There are always outliers and opportunity for more granular classification. Doesn’t mean the classifiers we have now are wrong, just not complete. I think it wouldn’t be as big of a concern if we didn’t relate male and female so closely to man and woman.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:50 collapse

It’s a concern when we use it to discriminate against trans people.

venusaur@lemmy.world on 22 May 16:32 collapse

Sure, but it’s sounding like guns kill people. People don’t kill people. We use skin color to discriminate against people, but doesn’t mean you can’t use it as a categorization in other ways. Anything can be used to discriminate against somebody. Credit score. Types of clothes they wear. Whatever.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 17:14 collapse

Anything can be used to discriminate against somebody.

Very true.

I think it wouldn’t be as big of a concern if we didn’t relate male and female so closely to man and woman.

I think we agree here.

powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 17:58 collapse

Sex is binary. Her body is still organized around producing one or the other of exactly two gamete types, which defines whether she’s male or female.

TheMuffinMan@piefed.world on 22 May 18:26 collapse

…nope. Her body can’t produce either. And she has a uterus and fallopian tubes.

powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 18:32 collapse

organized around

Even in extreme cases, someone can still be determined to be male or female. Even if they can’t produce gametes, they still have structures in their body that are required for producing gametes of one type, and not used for producing gametes of the other type.

TheMuffinMan@piefed.world on 22 May 18:58 collapse

“centred around” is a subjective projection rather than statement of a fact in cases where gamete production genuinely does not occur. For this person, her gonads never developed into either testes or ovaries, so by this definition she would be of neither sex. I’m OK with that, but it does undermine your point about the strict binary.

My question to you is why does this matter, in the context of accessing bathrooms and changing rooms? Do you think inspecting reproductive anatomy is a proportionate measure?

More broadly speaking, what is the point of recording the ‘biological sex’ of a person who, through transition, has changed their physiology and endocrine profile to that associated with the opposite, and no longer has their natal reproductive anatomy? Who would this benefit?

powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 19:13 collapse

Underdeveloped or non-functional gonads are still identifiable as sexually differentiated tissue. A streak gonad, dysgenetic gonad, or partially developed gonad is still distinguishable as male or female tissue. That distinction is fact, not subjective projection. It is also true that humans can’t change sex. Some sex traits can be modified, but not sex.

My comment is limited to ensuring scientific accuracy. It makes no claim about whether sex matters for bathroom access and changing rooms.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:48 collapse

But humans aren’t just animals and this statutory guidance shouldn’t treat them as if they’re just animals.

venusaur@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:49 collapse

Agreed. Just commenting on “biological sex”. The law sucks.

CovfefeKills@lemmy.world on 21 May 21:56 next collapse

You need to get a grip it’s stupid fucking shit like this that cost us the culture war.

DomeGuy@lemmy.world on 21 May 22:12 next collapse

The culture was isnt lost, but it’s not going to be won by deciding that we can have a little hateful bigotry, as a treat, because black/Jew/queer/gay/trans is “icky”.

CovfefeKills@lemmy.world on 21 May 22:19 collapse

Case in point. I never mentioned any of those groups, and I never discriminated trans people. I disagreed with this fucking idiot that’s the extent of it. Thanks for “Trump: Birthright citizenship is a disgrace” thanks for that you stupid fucking cunts this is your fault.

AmbitiousProcess@piefed.social on 21 May 22:42 collapse

I never discriminated trans people.

You directly replied to a post talking about biological essentialism and a misunderstanding of sex as a mechanism for discriminating against trans people, telling them “get a grip” and that caring about that scientific reality is “stupid fucking shit.”

Whether you believe it is or not, that is a form of discrimination, as it essentially posits that we should just ignore these facts to appease closed-minded individuals to “win” the culture war, even if that “win” comes at the expense of… being trans not being considered “real” or “biologically accurate" by those who entirely misunderstand what being trans is.

You need to realize that pushing scientific fact to the margins to appease other people fighting the ‘culture war’ does nothing but harm people so those other people can continue to live in ignorance.

Your mentality is the same as someone arguing that we shouldn’t have talked about there being no biological evidence for black people being dumber than white people because that would "lose us the culture war” against white slave owners that think they should get to own slaves because black people are dumber than them. Maybe you win their votes, but you’ve done nothing but enable the continuation of slavery by not confronting its widely believed yet incorrect ideological backing.

Not talking about things like intersex individuals and the unknowns about the links between sex and gender doesn’t win you anything in the long term if it comes at the cost of every single trans and intersex person’s (millions of people in just the USA, and that’s likely an undercount) rights by backsliding on public understanding of the subject.

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AmbitiousProcess@piefed.social on 21 May 23:31 next collapse

Get a fucking grip on fucking reality you stupid fucking idiot. Stop inventing things in your head to disagree with you putrid rotting dog cunt.

I see you’re not exactly into constructive conversation. Maybe chill out instead of getting so angry at comments online that it sends you into a fit of swearing rage?

justify it

Sure. Any time, any day. I doubt you’ll even read past the first sentence given how irrationally angry you seem to be, but maybe you’ll prove me wrong.

  • The vast majority of people do not even know there are sexes that could be defined outside the binary of male and female. They don’t know that chromosome combinations outside XX and XY exist at all.
  • When people are told this, many of them refuse to accept it, and simply cast it as "outliers" that in the end, don’t change their belief that “there are only 2 sexes”, sometimes because their religion simply states there’s only 2 against all currently known evidence, or even if they are just more broadly liberal and would still say gender is separate from sex. It is an uncomfortable thing for some to come to terms with to understand that something so deeply ingrained into our culture is much more complicated than it seems at a glance.
  • This has been a known fact for centuries, and yet society broadly still assumes, by default, that it is “abnormal” and “undesirable”, so surgeries are often performed on intersex individuals as babies to “correct” their sex characteristics to match just the two binary options most people are familiar with, even if that individual later finds out and would otherwise have not wanted the surgery.
  • To this day, people like you are continuing to call people like me a “putrid rotting dog cunt" for explaining this well-researched, broadly demonstrated topic with widespread occurrences across the globe, when the more reasonable answer to being told such a fact would be to spend even a minute on any search engine to find out you’re going against the whole of medical consensus and seemingly getting incredibly incensed over the fact that nobody agrees with you.
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AmbitiousProcess@piefed.social on 21 May 23:44 collapse

You aren’t adressing what they said

Every part of their statement was either reaffirmed or backed up with additional supporting statements in what I wrote. Either you didn’t read what I typed, or you simply don’t have the greatest reading comprehension and can’t see how my statements back up what they originally posted.

you are just stating random facts I never disagreed with.

Those ‘random facts’ are directly reaffirming the other person’s statements, which you called “the stupidest fucking shit I have seen today.” Is it safe to say that you calling something stupid probably means you disagree with it?

You are disingenuous

Keep telling yourself that, I’m sure you gotta fuel that anger somehow. It’s not you who is wrong, it must be everyone else!

CovfefeKills@lemmy.world on 22 May 00:14 collapse

calling something stupid probably means you disagree with it?

Jesus fucking christ dude biological sex is everything you have describe what are you even disagreeing with because I am disagreeing with the sentiment of a fucking idiot I am not talking about gender.

AmbitiousProcess@piefed.social on 22 May 00:33 collapse

biological sex is everything you have describe what are you even disagreeing with

Someone said, at least to summarize, that it’s stupid to think there’s only two sexes, and that people are intentionally ignorant of that fact.

You called that statement “stupid fucking shit”, then in another comment said “I disagreed with this fucking idiot that’s the extent of it.” as if that changed the fact that what you were disagreeing with was their statement.

Thus, the understanding is that you think those ideas are stupid, and thus incorrect.

Even now, you just said “I am not talking about gender.” Guess what? I’m not either. I’m talking about societal understanding of sex characteristics and how they get classified, just like the original comment you said was stupid was doing.

Of course I’m talking about biological sex, that’s the primary component of the thing you called stupid. What else am I supposed to be addressing here? You literally re-stated your point again, saying “This is the stupidest fucking shit I have seen today” while specifically quoting the part of the original comment addressing biological sex. Do you need a refresher on what you yourself quoted? Here it is:

In conclusion, “biological sex” is just another gross simplification created by people who’s minds are so pathetic they can’t comprehend reality and so choose to live by mantra founded in disproven pseudo-sciences, religion, and other excuses to avoid critical thinking, and then put themselves in positions of power.

Does that statement not literally begin by addressing biological sex?

Do you even know the topic of the argument you’re having right now? Are you just blindly disagreeing with people without reading the words you’re quoting? I’m not sure if you’re simply angry for the sake of it and ignorant of what you’re talking about, or if you’re just trolling on purpose, but regardless I’m done with this comment chain. You clearly aren’t acting in good faith, and you clearly don’t have a grasp on what it is you even started arguing about.

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himezero@lemmy.world on 21 May 23:32 collapse

This just goes to show transphobes and bigots refuse to learn about the reality we live in and instead lash out because something doesn’t fit their worldview.

CovfefeKills@lemmy.world on 21 May 23:36 collapse

lash out because something doesn’t fit their worldview.

That’s what OP is doing.

himezero@lemmy.world on 21 May 23:41 collapse

I only see you lashing out. Op is 100% correct and you are refusing to learn anything. Instead you call people a putrid rotting dog. Honestly I bet a putrid rotting dog smells better than you do.

CovfefeKills@lemmy.world on 21 May 23:42 collapse

Op is 100% correct

Why? Because it fits your worldview?

you are refusing to learn anything

I am not being taught anything I don’t already know.

himezero@lemmy.world on 22 May 00:18 collapse

Because science and peer reviewed data helped to inform me of reality. As well as living with non-binary and trans people, not to mention dating a trans man.

I am not being taught anything I don’t already know.

I think you need to take a logic class or read logic primer. Let’s remove the negatives, “I am being taught everything I already know” hmmm yeah that makes sense. You should try learning things you don’t already know. This is what I ment by refusing to learn. Not challenging your own beliefs doesn’t lead to growth, it leads to ignorance.

CovfefeKills@lemmy.world on 22 May 00:36 collapse

Uhm this is the new stupidest thing I have seen today.

The information provided to me in these posts is not new to me. I am aware of this information already.

“I am being taught everything I already know” hmmm yeah that makes sense

You invented something to disagree with good job buddy you are so smart.

himezero@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:00 collapse

Oh so you haven’t looked in a mirror today then.

Sure… I taught you about logic and you promptly dismissed it because you don’t understand it. I gave you the negated form of the statement you said. It’s still the same logical meaning, I just removed the double negative to make it easy for you to understand why that is an illogical statement. Take my statement “not challenging your own beliefs doesn’t lead to growth” now the negated version “challenging your beliefs leads to growth.” It’s seriously not that difficult. I didn’t invent something just to disagree with it. That’s called the strawman fallacy, instead I used logic to prove your statement illogical. If you understood logic you could have used much better reasons to argue with the original statement you had issues with to begin with. Instead you name call and demean everyone, an ad hominem fallacy.

CovfefeKills@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:05 collapse

But your logic was flawed this is doubling down on stupid. ???

In no way is it logical to refactor a sentence so you can disagree with it. Just disagree with it with double negatives you dumbass.

You taught me about logic? That is almost a delusion of grandeur.

Here I will remove the double negative, again:

I am not being taught anything I don’t already know.

I am not being taught new information.

Dumbass

himezero@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:16 collapse

Well i guess you are correct on one thing then, trying to teach you is definitely a delusion of grandeur. I feel so so sorry for any teachers you’ve had or have currently. If they made a go fund me to pay for the mental damage you’ve caused them, I’ll be sure to pitch in.

I’d love to see the logic behind my “flawed logic” but at this point you’re either too ignorant to learn or a troll. So I’m done engaging with your low effort. Come at me with real arguments and logic or fuck off.

CovfefeKills@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:19 collapse

Real simple if you want to remove a double negative you remove one of the negatives you don’t remove both negatives.

I am not being taught anything I don’t already know.

I am not being taught new information.

It’s right there buddy.

powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 18:03 collapse

Intersex individuals demonstrate variation within the sex binary. They’re still male or female.

en.wikipedia.org/…/Disorders_of_sex_development

Please stop pushing the idea that reality is “biological essentialism”.

magnue@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:35 collapse

This illogical nontopic was started as a culture bomb to fracture the left imo. Sometime around 2015.

meco03211@lemmy.world on 21 May 22:32 next collapse

I hate, with a burning passion, the term “biological sex”.

For anyone else questioning topics like this, here’s a fairly lengthy but great video on the topic.

youtu.be/nVQplt7Chos

magnetosphere@fedia.io on 21 May 23:26 next collapse

I don’t like it by association, because most of the time I hear it used by intolerant people (like right wing assholes on the “news”). Sometimes, though, I hear it used without malice, presumably because people don’t know what else to say.

Pardon my ignorance, but what term would you suggest instead? Birth sex? Assigned sex? Something else?

TheMuffinMan@piefed.world on 22 May 06:58 collapse

I’m not the person you asked, but ‘assigned sex’ is fine. The common one is ‘assigned gender at birth’.

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 07:18 collapse

The common one is ‘assigned gender at birth’.

*assigned sex

gender is assigned at birth by society, sex is assigned at birth by biology

usually they match, but sometimes they dont (hard-to-detect intersex conditions (which are never noticed), easy-to-detect intersex conditions (that get you mutilated))

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:39 collapse

sex is assigned at birth by biology

Minor unimportant correction: Sex is usually assigned at birth by nurses. It’s occasionally incorrect because it’s usually decided by what the baby’s crotch looks like rather than a blood test.

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 17:14 collapse

no, assigned sex is assigned by biology

nurses failing to notice that youre intersex doesnt make you not intersex

nurses attempt to discern the birth-assigned sex; they do not decide it

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 17:25 collapse

The word “assigned” is used exactly to describe a decision by a second party (the nurse) based on the limited information they have at the time.

Midwives relatively frequently incorrectly assign intersex people at birth.

Your actual sex isn’t assigned by anybody, and certainly isn’t decided at birth, but rather at conception.

Timeline:

  1. Conception: chromosomes determined.
  2. Womb: hormonal context influences gender characteristics.
  3. Birth: nurse assigns male or female.
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 17:32 collapse

The word “assigned” is used exactly to describe a decision by a second party (the nurse) based on the limited information they have at the time.

no

i’m using it to mean “gotten without having chosen it”

the sex they have gotten, without having chosen it, from the dna lottery

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 17:36 collapse

And you believe this happens at birth?! Nonsense!

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 17:42 collapse

“at birth” is an oversimplification, not meant to be accurate

its probably used so commonly because the not-yet-born human is usually not really considered

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 18:42 collapse

afab and amab are commonly used abbreviations in the trans community. They stand for Assigned Female at Birth and Assigned Male at Birth.

Cis men don’t describe themselves as “amab” they just describe themselves as men.

Absolutely "assigned” is used to describe a potentially imperfect decision by the nurse to label a baby male or female, based on the limited information they have at the time.

There’s a lot more to gender than just what the nurse sees when you pop out, even for cis people, but what gets written down doesn’t take anything else into account.

Trans people have typically thought this stuff through a lot and are using words carefully, whereas you seem resistant both to the meaning of the verb “assigned” and the context “at birth”.

Krusty@quokk.au on 22 May 00:01 next collapse

Biological sex is just that. It’s your reproductive organs. Neat. Simple. Clean cut(or uncut) in most cases. Aberrations exist, but they’re rare.

Gender is a psychology. It’s an identity.

Walk_blesseD@piefed.blahaj.zone on 22 May 00:19 collapse

No it’s not. It’s a whole bunch of loosely correlated characteristics, many of which can be changed.

magnue@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:28 next collapse

The thread of this conversation is exactly why a line has to be drawn and written in law using the clearest measure there is.

T00l_shed@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:50 next collapse

Oooor just let trans folk use the damn bathroom? There doesn’t need to have a line drawn

magnue@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:56 collapse

There always needs to be a line drawn in law.

T00l_shed@lemmy.world on 22 May 02:06 collapse

Agreed, the line is use the bathroom and don’t shit on the floor

homura1650@lemmy.world on 22 May 02:06 next collapse

A) No it doesn’t. Where I live, it is entirely legal for a man to enter the women’s bathroom. Nothing to do with transgender folks; it simply is not a crime.

B) The UK has an official “gender recognition certificate” program. If you wanted to draw a line, I would think that individuals with such a certificate would fall on their recognized side of the line; however, under the new standard, a trans women with an official government issued gender recognition certificate is still considered by that same government to be a man for the purposes of using a toilet.

fatcat@discuss.tchncs.de on 22 May 04:31 collapse

Clearest measure here wouldn’t be the “biological sex” anyway… Because going mens bathroom doesn’t require a penis, last time I checked. But it does require to be perceived as a man which relates more to other characteristics like beard and appearance. Same goes the other way around.

magnue@lemmy.world on 22 May 05:01 collapse

And how do you define something as subjective as that in law? Absolutely absurd.

T00l_shed@lemmy.world on 22 May 11:09 collapse

It was working just fine before this law no?

powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 17:59 collapse
deranger@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 00:13 next collapse

Doesn’t sound to me like you know the difference between sex and gender. We do have a pretty solid idea of how genetics and sex are intertwined, including intersex conditions. Gender is a whole different thing.

ImgurRefugee114@reddthat.com on 22 May 07:42 collapse

You’re mostly correct, tho the bit about genetics (+++) and sex is a bellcurve meme… There’s tons we don’t know and a lot of it is a giant interconnected mesh of incredibly complex relationship we barely grasp with very little casual data, and just a tiny bit of epidemiological inference that we can almost try to reason from.

deranger@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 13:08 collapse

Can you explain further? I’m a biochemist / medical lab scientist, and between my studies in genetics, human sexuality, and endocrinology, it seems pretty well figured out. Between “normal” X/Y chromosomes, various chromosomal abnormalities (X, XXX, XXY, XYY, etc), and mutations like androgen insensitivity syndrome it seems there is significant causal data. Not sure if they’ve studied these with knockout mice but it’s well beyond inference at this point.

I’m not sealioning here, it has been like a decade since I was actively learning this stuff and I’m sure there have been more discoveries. In general though it seems like we know the genetics, we know the hormones and receptors involved, the developmental process and various maladies are known, etc.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:26 collapse

I’m not sealioning here

Are you sure? I’m not.

For someone taking the trouble to disagree with “sex is more complicated than binary M/F” there sure are a lot of caveats to your argument.

deranger@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 15:45 collapse

That is absolutely not what I’m saying. I’m saying the biological processes that lead to intersex or otherwise “complicated” sex conditions are fairly well understood. Sex is much more complicated than just the M/F dichotomy, and the current scientific and medical understanding of sex supports this.

Those who deny that sex is more complicated than binary M/F are rejecting well established science.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 16:32 next collapse

I’m so sorry, I completely got the wrong end of the stick.

deranger@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 17:07 collapse

No worries, thanks for allowing me to explain and reading what I said. Online discussions can be difficult these days.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 17:11 collapse

Too true, too true.

powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 17:43 collapse

You should ignore that poster. They’re not right in the head.

deranger@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 18:24 collapse

Nah, seems like they just misinterpreted what I was saying.

Witchfire@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:15 next collapse

Biological sex is a dogwhistle made digestible to appease the apathetic moderate

Edit: and this entire thread is proof of that 🍿

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 03:24 next collapse

What about when you go to the doctor and they need to know what type of organs you were born with instead of what type of clothes you like to wear?

Sex ≠ gender.

It’s wrong to try to force “gender” to mean “sex”, but trying to force “sex” to mean “gender” is also wrong.

Witchfire@lemmy.world on 22 May 04:24 next collapse

That isn’t even a reliable indicator, and if it comes up, it is a discussion between the patient and the doctor and no one else. We have the language to be specific. Besides, doctors don’t even know what to do with trans people regardless of gender or surgeries because all medical research on the topic has been blocked, erased, or burned by knuckledraggers

(MTF) When I go to doctors I have to explain to them that if they run my bloodwork as Male, every single damn metric on it is going to be flashing bright red. When it’s run as Female, I can get actual data out of it. Also guess who you go to if you have titty problems.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 05:46 collapse

I wasn’t saying “organs” was an indicator. Obviously that’s not the question on the medical form. I was using it as a placeholder because apparently I’m not allowed to use the term “biological sex.” If you rule out the basic term used to describe something, don’t be surprised when people use a less reliable descriptor to get the point across.

We have the language to be specific.

Yes, and the language for that is “biological sex.” If you go to the doctor, they will ask you for your biological sex. Are you saying every medical questionnaire is really using transphobic dogwhistles?

Besides, doctors don’t even know what to do with trans people regardless of gender or surgeries because all medical research on the topic has been blocked, erased, or burned by knuckledraggers

Doctors don’t immediately get amnesia when something gets defunded. If a doctor already specialized in gender-affirming care, then they still know as much as they did before this administration shut down new research. If they didn’t specialize in it before, then they were already ignorant about it anyway so it’s not like this makes them more ignorant.

Using the government to hamper medical research is a bad thing, yes. Giving bigoted doctors an excuse to let their religion or politics influence the care they give is a bad thing too. And so is making doctors who do care have to fear for their medical licenses in order to continue providing medically necessary treatments. But claiming that doctors suddenly don’t know what to do is a hyperbole that misses the actual issue.

and if it comes up, it is a discussion between the patient and the doctor and no one else.

I wasn’t saying otherwise. You said “biological sex” is a useless concept and nothing but a dogwhistle, so I gave a counterexample of a situation where it’s has a legitimate use as a concept.

If a trans man goes to the doctor, it’s not transphobic for that doctor to ask if he may be pregnant or when his last period was. That’s standard information that doctors ask every patient who has ovaries. When it comes to routine medical exams, gender simply doesn’t matter as much as biological sex.

Obviously if someone is on hormone therapy then it changes the indicators and target ranges for lab work. It changes the specific things to mainly look out for, like types of cancers and bone density or cholesterol issues. Having organs removed, whether cis or trans, changes risk factors for a variety of diseases and renders some screenings less necessary. That should all be taken into account, of course, but pretending that “biological sex” is useless in medical contexts is an ignorant take.

And besides, if “biological sex” is such a bogus concept, then what do we even contrast “gender” with in the first place? If those are different things, then each one logically must be something, or else there wouldn’t be two different concepts, in which case the two concepts would collapse in on each other and become functionally the same. If you want them to be distinct, then pretending one of them doesn’t really exist is counterproductive.

It’s like race and ethnicity. Race is a social construct, sure, but nobody takes that to mean ethnicity doesn’t exist or is just a useless dogwhistle.

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 07:12 next collapse

the term “biological sex” doesnt make much sense tho

what are all of those complex medical treatments trans people can get, if not biology? far more advanced and interesting biology at that

and “biological sex” isnt a binary either, 1 in 40 people are intersex, mostly with almost no effect, but not in the binary either

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 07:17 next collapse

So what do you want to call it then? It’s not like I’m attached to the term itself, but the point is that it’s a useful and necessary concept in some contexts so there needs to be a term that refers to it, and you can’t just assume anyone who uses the most common term to describe it is transphobic.

And I never said it’s a binary, but if a person is intersex then that’s probably important information for their doctors to know because there may be certain medical complications that they’re more at risk for as a result.

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 17:10 collapse

“birth-assigned sex” or “assigned sex”

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 17:18 collapse

Thank you, it would have been much easier to say that the first time I asked “what’s a better term if you don’t like that one?” instead of jumping off the deep end and assuming I’m just trying to be transphobic

PapaStevesy@lemmy.world on 22 May 15:02 collapse

Sure it does, it’s the sex you have biologically. The second thing you’re talking about is called gender-affirming care and is distinct from biological sex. Both “sex” and “gender” are societal concepts, but sex is descriptive whereas gender is prescriptive. You can read that to mean sex is scientifically determinable, whereas gender is meaninglessly abstract. Sex says, “assuming all your bits work, here’s how you would contribute to the reproductive process.” Gender says, “regardless of what bits you were born with but dependent on what bits people think you were born with, here’s how society will treat you and expect you to behave.” “Biological gender” doesn’t exist, just like “sociological sex” doesn’t exist. So I guess in that sense, “biological sex” doesn’t make sense, because there’s no other kind.

Cethin@lemmy.zip on 22 May 18:13 collapse

Biology is a term used to describe how your body functions. Hormones changing your body is biology, whether they’re natural or otherwise. “Biological sex” is a dog whistle. It is not a term used by people who are being honest. It’s just sex, or sex assigned at birth. “Biological sex” is a term for bigots to sound like they have science on their side.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:31 next collapse

You are sealioning. You don’t speak to your doctor in order to use the loos. In this context, “biological sex” is a transphobic dog whistle.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 14:47 collapse

I’m not commenting on the top-level post, I was replying to a comment that said:

Biological sex is a dogwhistle made digestible to appease the apathetic moderate

That’s not sealioning.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:57 collapse

You don’t speak to your doctor in order to use the loos. In this context, “biological sex” is a transphobic dog whistle.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 15:59 collapse

I never said that you do.

It’s entirely possible to say “it’s being used as a dogwhistle in this context” without saying “it’s a totally useless term that can only be used as a dogwhistle.”

The comment I originally replied to was insinuating the latter.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 17:18 collapse

No, they said “it’s a transphobic dog whistle” and you invented all that extra stuff to start your irrelevant argument. It’s called a straw man.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 17:22 collapse

I didn’t invent anything. They said it’s a transphobic dogwhistle made digestible to appease the apathetic moderate. Nothing about that statement limits it to the context of this post. It sounds overly-broad to me.

And if you think I invented the relevance to the medical field, then how do you argue with this person’s comment:

Can you explain further? I’m a biochemist / medical lab scientist, and between my studies in genetics, human sexuality, and endocrinology, it seems pretty well figured out. Between “normal” X/Y chromosomes, various chromosomal abnormalities (X, XXX, XXY, XYY, etc), and mutations like androgen insensitivity syndrome it seems there is significant causal data. Not sure if they’ve studied these with knockout mice but it’s well beyond inference at this point.

I’m not sealioning here, it has been like a decade since I was actively learning this stuff and I’m sure there have been more discoveries. In general though it seems like we know the genetics, we know the hormones and receptors involved, the developmental process and various maladies are known, etc.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 18:47 collapse

I didn’t invent anything.

Really?

“it’s a totally useless term that can only be used as a dogwhistle.”

This you?

If you can’t see the strawmanning here, you’re one or more of unselfaware, unable to back down when you’re wrong, disingenuous or malicious.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 18:53 collapse

That’s not a strawman or an invention, it’s literally what the person was saying.

Are you fixating on the fact that it wasn’t verbatim? Because I had to elucidate the subtext, since otherwise you’ll pretend subtext doesn’t exist.

And there you go pretending subtext doesn’t exist. Amazing.

Witchfire@lemmy.world on 22 May 16:44 next collapse

Yes, and the language for that is “biological sex.” If you go to the doctor, they will ask you for your biological sex.

“Biological sex” is poor language because it doesn’t actually provide any useful information. It says nothing about my hormone levels, it says nothing about my fat distribution, it says nothing about my (in)ability to have kids, it says nothing about my dose requirements, it says nothing about my genitals, it says nothing about my medical history, it says nothing about my BMI, it masks certain cancer risks, it has never actually achieved anything useful at the doctor’s office. All it does is placate transphobes and cause bureaucratic headaches.

If a medical form needs to know if I can get pregnant, the correct language is “are you able to get pregnant”. It’s not transphobic to ask that in a medical context, if anything it’s expected. It is transphobic to assume a trans person can’t answer that truthfully. Besides, the question also covers cis women who can’t get pregnant and trans men who can.

Doctors don’t immediately get amnesia when something gets defunded … But claiming that doctors suddenly don’t know what to do is a hyperbole that misses the actual issue.

Yes, they literally do seemingly get amnesia. One of the main complaints we have about doctors is that they dismiss every concern by blaming it on us being trans. I’ve heard it described as “trans broken leg syndrome”. It’s a similar issue to what cis women face, almost like it’s a systematic issue that affects anyone who isn’t a cis man.

That should all be taken into account, of course, but pretending that “biological sex” is useless in medical contexts is an ignorant take.

This is contradictory. Trans people already face discrimination and confusion from doctors on the norm. Eg: I’ve even had issues with my ophthalmologist, as if being trans has any effect whatsoever on my eyes. A single binary “biological sex” marker erases all the nuance involved and strips us of the language needed to properly convey it.

And besides, if “biological sex” is such a bogus concept, then what do we even contrast “gender” with in the first place?

Individual physical characteristics. Call it “Sex” and leave it open ended for all I care. It’s the enforcement of a strict binary, removal of agency, and purposeful ignorance of modern science that I take issue with - all while hiding under the term “biological”. It is for those reasons that it is often used as a dogwhistle.


Finally, your persistent sealioning only contributes to the problem that no one ever fucking listens to trans people. We are a tiny and very vulnerable minority who are constantly being drowned out in a sea of cis voices that think they know the trans experience better than us (eg: when was the last time you saw NYT quote a trans person?) You have easily typed out more than any trans person in the conversation but have seemingly learned absolutely nothing from it.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 17:05 collapse

Besides, a lot of cis women can’t get pregnant either, and it covers the case of trans men who can.

You don’t realize that’s actually more reason to ask about biological sex? If a cis woman can’t get pregnant, but she still has ovaries, and all the form asks is “can you get pregnant,” then that leaves out important information, such as “I have ovaries and should be screened for ovarian cancer.”

A field for “sex” (whether “biological” or “birth” or “assigned” or anything else) very much does provide relevant information, and just because there’s additional information that may be relevant (such as hormones and surgeries) doesn’t negate that.

And I never said it should be binary. That’s an assumption you’re making about what point I’m trying to make. I’ve never denied the existence of intersex people, and in fact I even mentioned how a person being intersex is relevant information for their doctor to know that isn’t covered by gender or “can you get pregnant?”

I’ve heard it described as “trans broken arm syndrome”.

Medical professionals dismissing people’s concerns is a completely separate issue from needing to know basic information about their bodies.

And by the way, even as an ostensibly cis man, I’ve regularly had my concerns dismissed by doctors too. It’s almost like when you never stop to ask someone what kinds of issues they face, you don’t realize that some of the issues you face, they face too.

This assumption that “cis men just automatically get all the medical treatment they need” is based in the fact that nobody ever stopped to ask cis men if they ever feel dismissed by their doctors. (Oh, and by the way, the cultural stigma that cis men are supposed to avoid the doctor because they need to be manly and strong might also have something to do with it, since most men avoid going to the doctor until there’s no doubt that something is absolutely wrong. As someone who finds that to be bullshit, and has gone to the doctor with a variety of concerns that get dismissed, I can tell you that dismissive doctors is endemic to the medical profession, and that cis men aren’t just magically immune to it).

A single binary “biological sex”

If you want to argue that this can be packaged into a nice little binary

I never said anything about sex being binary, so your fixation on making this about binaries is a strawman.

Finally, your persistent sealioning only contributes to the problem that no one ever fucking listens to trans people.

I’m not sealioning. I’ve listened to what people are saying, but just because I’ve listened to something doesn’t mean I can’t disagree with it. And since nobody has actually come up with a response to what I’ve said and have chosen instead to rely on thought-stopping accusations of transphobia and strawman arguments such as misrepresenting this as being about binaries or about toilets, then it seems I’m the one not being listened to. Do you realize how difficult it is to maintain a good-faith discussion with someone who wilfully misses the point?

You have easily typed out more than any trans person in the conversation and have learned absolutely nothing from it.

Why should I have to learn from anyone who’s responding to points I didn’t make? People make assumptions about me and mischaracterize what I’m saying. What is there to learn from that?

I’ve asked what terminology you prefer. I’ve asked what a medical form should ask instead of “biological sex.” But nobody responds to that because they want to dismiss it all as transphobia. There’s not much to learn from that.

And just because I’m on the spectrum and don’t know how to be concise while still getting my point across doesn’t mean a thing.

Simon_Shitewood@lemmy.ml on 22 May 17:29 collapse

"can you get pregnant,” then that leaves out important information, such as “I have ovaries and should be screened for ovarian cancer.”

They know you have ovaries if you can get pregnant. From an outside perspective it definitely looks like you’re just being argumentative rather than discussing it from a position of knowledge.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 17:53 collapse

What if you have ovaries but you can’t get pregnant? Because that’s the type of case to which I was referring.

Cethin@lemmy.zip on 22 May 18:10 collapse

Just FYI, I’ve never been asked about my “biological sex” from a doctor, and I’m pretty sure you haven’t either. You’ve been asked about your sex. That’s it. “Biological sex” is a right-wing dog whistle.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 18:41 collapse

Yeah, it just says “Sex” and the “biological” part is implied. That doesn’t change the fact that it’s a useful concept in some contexts to convey a relevant set of information.

Calling it “biological sex” might be redundant but that doesn’t make it inherently bigoted. Someone might simply be emphasizing the distinction between sex and gender. And besides, I’m not the one who started calling it that in this thread so don’t act like I’m just inserting it unnecessarily.

It’s funny how many seemingly innocuous words and phrases that I didn’t know were ostensibly dogwhistles end up being called dogwhistles. If there’s some secret right-wing code of words that mean specific things other than their apparent meaning, I assure you I don’t know it because I don’t follow those spaces or their jargon. And I can almost guarantee you that I’m not the only one like that.

So immediately jumping to “dogwhistle” every time you hear someone say something that’s supposedly in this list of secret right-wing code words is kind of a disingenuous argument and you’re just going to alienate people who then won’t take you seriously in the future.

WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com on 22 May 04:39 collapse

I’ve yet to have any single interaction with a doctor where knowing I was born with a penis has been helpful beyond not having to ask questions like “might you be pregnant?”, but so many flags in medical paperwork that just result from them mislabeling me as a male.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 05:49 collapse

Okay, so are you just going to ignore the inverse situation where a trans man goes to the doctor and the doctor does have to ask if he might be pregnant?

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 07:13 collapse

theyre not ignoring it?

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 07:19 collapse

No one has addressed the situation even though I’ve mentioned it twice in this thread now. That seems like ignoring it, no?

Is it transphobic for a doctor to ask a trans man if he might be pregnant, or no?

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 09:15 collapse

Is it transphobic for a doctor to ask a trans man if he might be pregnant, or no?

no

if they are, at the time, able to be pregnant, it makes sense

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 13:38 collapse

Okay, then it makes sense to have a spot on the intake forms to denote biological sex, or assigned sex at birth, or whatever term you want to use for it.

Otherwise a doctor seeing a new patient won’t know the appropriate questions to ask.

There should also be sections to mark any medications one is on, including hormone therapy, and any prior surgeries, including organ removal.

So instead of saying biological sex is a useless concept that only transphobes use, why not mention what your preferred terminology is so that people who actually care about being affirming can use the correct term?

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:35 collapse

why not mention what your preferred terminology is so that people who actually care about being affirming can use the correct term?

Oh, if you actually care about being affirming, the correct term is gender. What you say to your doctor is private. Gender is the public facing bit. It’s the relevant bit for which toilets you or I go in, which is what we’re discussing.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 14:53 collapse

The correct term is not gender, because gender is different from sex. If you go to the doctor and all they ask is your gender, they’re missing critical information.

I never said what people tell their doctors belongs anywhere other than their confidential medical record.

I wasn’t speaking in reference to bathrooms. A commenter said “biological sex is a transphobic dogwhistle” and I pointed out that that’s not always the case.

And really? Someone called this “transphobic apologia” and permabanned me from several communities that I’ve never participated in anyway? I pretty clearly distinguished that what I’m saying is not transphobia, but I suppose if you lack any nuance then it could be hard to tell the difference.

If I didn’t value trans lives then why would I give a shit if your doctor fails to screen for the correct types of cancer because they don’t know your biological sex? If I was transphobic, that wouldn’t matter to me at all.

I get it, there’s a lot of transphobia in the world and that probably makes you see it where there is none, but golly, permabanning from several unrelated communities is petty as hell.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 15:33 collapse

Oh, if you actually care about being affirming, the correct term is gender.

The correct term is not gender, because gender is different from sex.

This post is about public gendered spaces. A toilet doesn’t have gonads. Your derailment into medical treatment is not helpful and the opposite of affirming. If your trans friend, should you be capable of retaining one, complains about access to toilets following this development, interrupting them to tell them that they’re always going to have to mention their sex assigned at birth to the doctor is deeply unsympathetic at the very least.

I wasn’t speaking in reference to bathrooms. A commenter said “biological sex is a transphobic dogwhistle” and I pointed out that that’s not always the case.

It’s a transphobic dog whistle in the context of this guidance.

Even if private conversions with your doctor and registration forms were relevant in a discussion about using a term like “biological sex” in guidance about gendered spaces, still in 2026, if your doctor’s registration has “Biologocal sex: M/F” and nothing else, your doctor is transphobic asshole who has decided to mistreat (in both senses) a persecuted minority.

And really? Someone called this “transphobic apologia” and permabanned me from several communities that I’ve never participated in anyway?

Really. If you can’t see how derailing the topic and pontificating about what your doctor needs to know in a discussion about who is allowed to use the toilets in peace, then you lack empathy.

I’m no mod. I don’t have the time or the inclination to clean up the worst shit on the site

I didn’t ban you, but I’d be shocked if a comm or instance designed as a safe space for trans people wanted you showing up there banging on about their birth sex. Prebanning you stops you from showing up there to sealion the same stuff they’re absolutely sick of hearing, because I promise you, you aren’t the first nor the first thousandth person to debate “biological sex” in the context of trans people’s rights.

I pretty clearly distinguished that what I’m saying is not transphobia,

Your assertion means so much less than your behaviour. All three racist things I ever heard were prefixed by “I’m not being racist, but” and the weirdest thing ever said to me by a retailer was was prefixed by “I’m not being funny, but”.

but I suppose if you lack any nuance then it could be hard to tell the difference.

It is genuinely very hard indeed to tell the difference between someone on the autistic spectrum turning up in a post about trans people and arguing something unhelpful, unsupportive and upsetting to trans people at length out of pedantry without realising that they’re derailing the conversion and upsetting trans people, and a sealioning transphobe.

If you aren’t transphobic and you aren’t autistic, I would expect you to adjust how you speak in this kind of context.

I get it, there’s a lot of transphobia in the world and that probably makes you see it where there is none, but golly, permabanning from several unrelated communities is petty as hell.

Didn’t do it, but I understand it, and the fact that you can’t seem to understand why it happened is the same reason they wanted to do it.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 16:32 next collapse

This post is about public gendered spaces

I didn’t leave a top-level comment. I replied to someone who made an excessively broad statement lacking any nuance. They didn’t say “it’s being used as a transphobic dogwhistle in this context,” they suggested that it can only be used as a transphobic dogwhistle. So I provided a counterexample.

Ignoring the fact that my comment was a reply to someone else’s, and responding as if I was leaving a top-level comment, means you’re the one ignoring context.

If your trans friend,…, complains about access to toilets following this development, interrupting them to tell them that they’re always going to have to mention their sex assigned at birth to the doctor is deeply unsympathetic at the very least.

I don’t just randomly blurt out “doctors need to know their patient’s anatomy!” in irrelevant situations. My response was a reply to someone saying “biological sex” has no useful meaning except as a transphobic dogwhistle. How is that so difficult to understand?

If my friend wasn’t talking about the bathroom, but said “biological sex is just a transphobic dogwhistle” without qualifying it as “in ____ specific context”, then I would push back and say “then how will a doctor know whether to ask a trans man if he’s pregnant?” And so far no one has been able to provide a good answer to that, so that tells me you’re just using “transphobia” as a dismissive thought-stopper because you’re uncomfortable with considering a reality that feels taboo (specifically because it’s treated as “transphobic dogwhistle” in all contexts, leaving no room for nuance).

If you can’t see how derailing the topic and pontificating about what your doctor needs to know in a discussion about who is allowed to use the toilets in peace, then you lack empathy

It’s not derailing or pontificating because it was in response to a different comment which was attempting to make an overly-broad judgement. If you think I’m making this about toilets then you need to reread what I said, because nothing I said has been about toilets.

I didn’t ban you, but I’d be shocked if a comm or instance designed as a safe space for trans people wanted you showing up there banging on about their birth sex.

Yeah, except it wasn’t just trans comms, several of them were completely unrelated. Some mod saw my comments and decided to be petty and ban me from every comm they’re a mod on. That’s what’s ridiculous.

Also, I don’t just show up in trans comms talking about bathrooms and birth sex. That would be psycho. This isn’t even a trans comm. And what I said was relevant to the discussion.

And nothing I’ve said has been sealioning, people are just refusing to address the very legitimate point that I made that doctor’s need to know what sex someone was born as in order to ask the right questions and screen for the right things.

I’m not “debating” biological sex. The fact that you think that’s even a debate is kinda dissociated from reality. I acknowledged the difference between sex and gender in my first comment, and said we shouldn’t conflate the two. At no point did I say anything like “gender must match sex,” or “there’s only two genders,” or “there’s only two sexes.” All those layers of interpretation have been added on by other people to uncharitably lump me into the category “transphobe” just so they don’t have to think about what I said. That’s a strawman.

All three racist things I ever heard were prefixed by “I’m not being racist, but”

Except I didn’t prefix what I said with “I’m not transphobic, but.” I didn’t say I wasn’t transphobic until after someone accused me of being transphobic. It was a simple rebuttal, because nothing I said was transphobic. You saw a shadow of a tree and thought it was freddie kruger.

If you aren’t transphobic and you aren’t autistic, I would expect you to adjust how you speak in this kind of context

Great, so you’re assuming I’m not autistic. Neurotypical defaultism is ableist.

and the fact that you can’t seem to understand why it happened is the same reason they wanted to do it.

Oh, I can understand why it happened. It’s because someone was being petty and trigger-happy without caring to stop and think critically for a moment. I didn’t say I don’t understand how this could happen. I just called it petty.

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 17:04 collapse

I didn’t leave a top-level comment. I replied to someone who made an excessively broad statement lacking any nuance. They didn’t say “it’s being used as a transphobic dogwhistle in this context,” they suggested that it can only be used as a transphobic dogwhistle

No, they didn’t, they just said (and to repeat, they said it in the context of this guidance about access to gendered spaces) “it’s a transphobic dog whistle”, which is absolutely what it is in this context, and you strawmanned that up to “it’s always transphobic dog whistle in every context, even if you omit the unnecessary oversimplifying adjective ‘biological’” and made the argument about that.

very legitimate point that I made that doctor’s need to know

Correction, very irrelevant point in this context.

If you aren’t transphobic and you aren’t autistic, I would expect you to adjust how you speak in this kind of context

Great, so you’re assuming I’m not autistic. Neurotypical defaultism is ableist.

No, there’s an if at the start of that sentence and an and partway in.

and the fact that you can’t seem to understand why it happened is the same reason they wanted to do it.

Oh, I can understand why it happened. It’s because someone was being petty and trigger-happy without caring to stop and think critically for a moment. I didn’t say I don’t understand how this could happen. I just called it petty.

I think it’s rational to ban someone who refuses to accept that their lengthy sealioning is unwelcome from a comm designed to be free of exactly that kind of sealioning.

You act like you’re unable to understand why those comments were unwelcome. If you do understand why they’re unwelcome, stop. If you don’t understand why they’re unwelcome, don’t claim to understand.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 17:13 collapse

They applied their judgement in an unqualified and overly broad sense. They weren’t just talking about “in this context.” And if you aren’t operating on the assumption that “it’s always a transphobic dogwhistle,” then why are people saying it’s a transphobic dogwhistle when I simply say “it’s not necessarily a transphobic dogwhistle”?

Correction, very irrelevant point in this context

It’s not irrelevant at all, but if you keep ignoring thr context that makes it relevant then I can’t change your mind…

No, there’s an if at the start of that sentence and an and partway in.

Which was clearly meant to be hostile and the disclaimer “if you’re not autistic…” doesn’t really change that.

I think it’s rational to ban someone who refuses to accept that their lengthy sealioning is unwelcome from a comm designed to be free of exactly that kind of sealioning.

First of all, I’m not sealioning. I don’t know why you’re fixated on that. I didn’t say “Oh yeah, prove it’s a dogwhistle” multiple times while ignoring evidence. I provided evidence in the form of a counterexample that it’s not always a dogwhistle; evidence which was promptly and repeatedly ignored. In other words, you’re the ones sealioning.

Second of all, this isn’t a trans comm, and neither were half the ones I got permabanned from. So your logic falls short.

You act like you’re unable to understand why those comments were unwelcome. If you do understand why they’re unwelcome, stop. If you don’t understand why they’re unwelcome, don’t claim to understand.

They’re unwelcome cause some mods and instance admins want to create echo chambers where nuanced discussion isn’t allowed, so they label any unpopular opinion as “transphobic” even when that accusation doesn’t hold up.

Nothing I’ve said has been bigoted, y’all are just loading layers of meaning and interpretation onto my statements because you’re conditioned to see transphobia and bigotry everywhere you look. It sucks that you have to put up with that stuff, but that’s not what I’m doing and you’re overapplying that filter.

powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 17:48 collapse

You should ignore that poster. They’re mentally ill.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 17:56 collapse

Thanks, I was starting to feel like I had my back against the wall and was being outnumbered.

I’m mentally ill too though, so I don’t think that automatically means someone should be ignored. But yeah, if they persistently misrepresent what I say in order to feel morally superior and make it easier to argue then I’ll gladly ignore them, mental illness or not

powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 18:07 collapse

I’ll clarify that they’ve repeatedly demonstrated that they’re unfortunately mentally ill in a way that makes it not worth your time to engage. Just downvote and move on.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz on 22 May 18:34 collapse

Noted. Thank you

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 17:20 collapse

agreed, except that how is autism relevant?

davidagain@lemmy.world on 22 May 18:30 collapse

It would explain an emphasis on definitions and a deemphasis from the social consequences of debating the definitions in a particular social context.

The person I was talking to admitted that it can be hard to tell the difference between transphobia and an only accidentally offensive post. I was providing a rationale for how the latter could have occurred.

PapaStevesy@lemmy.world on 22 May 15:05 collapse

You’re thinking of gender, sex is scientifically determinable.

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powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 17:42 collapse

The definition of sex is simple. It’s defined entirely as the gametes one’s body is organized around producing. This is not an oversimplification. It is the reality that biologists have found in nature. It is settled science in the field of biology. Chromosomes are how sex is determined. Other species have completely different sex determination systems. Their sex is still defined by gametes.

Intersex is a confusing term. It has confused you. Some people are born with a Disorder of sex development. They are still either male or female.

Humans cannot change sex. Hormones can change some secondary sex characteristics. That does not change sex.

HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world on 22 May 18:08 collapse

That’s a juvenile understanding of sex, yes

powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 18:10 collapse

As stated, that’s the definition that the entire field of biology uses. If you think it’s juvenile, take it up with them.

Perhaps, if all of the biologists are telling you you’re wrong, you might just be wrong?

JoMiran@lemmy.ml on 21 May 21:59 next collapse

Make all WC unisex. No physical change other than signage. Will this fix the problem? No, it will make.a royal fucking mess of it all and hopefully press politicians to reverse their trans phobic laws.

inari@piefed.zip on 22 May 01:42 collapse

One thing I like about the separation is that men tend to clear the toilet faster, which means the line moves quicker

JoMiran@lemmy.ml on 22 May 01:59 next collapse

I agree. Removing that perk by making them all unisex is another thing that will make it a miserable experience for all. The idea is for it to be horrible enough for the TERFs to back off and the laws to change.

shroomato@lemmy.world on 22 May 11:53 collapse

I was recently at a venue that had two bathrooms: the unisex one which is all stalls, and one for men which is all urinals. Seems like the best of both worlds to me.

Maeve@kbin.earth on 21 May 22:05 next collapse

They're making them use portajohns.

magnue@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:26 collapse

At work we had a male and female single-cubicle bathroom in reception. These are high-value bathrooms at work for dropping off the kids.

Somebody complained that there weren’t any gender neutral bathrooms so they’re both unisex now.

Now the men use the women’s bathroom and the women don’t use it anymore.

dragonlover@lemmy.zip on 22 May 11:19 collapse

If it’s single unit why would women not use it anymore…?

My work had gendered single unit bathrooms but the women’s bathroom was farther away from the office space and since it was single room people of any gender just used the closer one regardless, and eventually they just swapped out the signs to gender neutral ones because of it’s single stall who gives a shit? No one is going in there with you.

magnue@lemmy.world on 22 May 12:41 collapse

Because men tend to cover things in their own excrement and leave toilet seats up or piss on them etc etc etc.

dogslayeggs@lemmy.world on 22 May 15:38 collapse

My highschool job was working at a sporting goods store. My closing duties each night were to clean the women’s restroom and occasionally cover for another department to clean the men’s room. I can tell you that the women’s restroom was always grosser. Yeah, there would be more pee on the seats and floor in the men’s room, but the rest of the place was far cleaner than the women’s.

magnue@lemmy.world on 22 May 16:33 collapse

Bathrooms are safe spaces for women. A line must be drawn in the most easy to define way to exclude men from the women’s bathroom. This is a court ruling to define law.

Naich@piefed.world on 21 May 21:08 next collapse

So how are these dipshits going to feel when a trans man uses the female toilet?

Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world on 21 May 21:24 next collapse

They’re going to feel great because that’ll give them another opportunity to harass transgender people.

isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 21 May 21:28 collapse

They don’t feel. They’re not even human. They’re animals.

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Zorque@lemmy.world on 21 May 23:31 next collapse

Animals have more empathy than these tools.

frongt@lemmy.zip on 22 May 01:34 collapse

Dehumanization is a tool of oppression

isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 22 May 02:47 next collapse

So? They need to be oppressed. I think we should start talking a hell of a lot more about overtly stripping the rights from religious freaks and TERFs. Oppression is a tool of politics, and we’ve been unilaterally disarming ourselves for far too long.

We’re currently in a one-sided war. The bigots can tirelessly work to strip the rights of everyone else, and they can sit comfortably knowing that no one will ever come after their rights and their liberties. After all, good liberals like yourself don’t want to get their hands dirty, and they hem and haw and, cluck and peck at the ground, saying “wait, wait, we can’t stoop to their level. They go low, we go high!” Then they maintain the moral high ground while the lives of vulnerable minorities are destroyed one piece at a time.

Fuck that. Here’s an idea. Let’s declare conservative churches as inappropriate for children. Kids shouldn’t be exposed to the filth that’s in the Bible after all. There’s murder, bestiality, genocide, incest, and any number of disgusting things in that book. Maybe by law you should have to be 18 to read it. No more baptism for anyone under the age of 18. Hell, let’s not even allow kids in churches until age 16.

Or here’s an idea. Let’s declare denying your kid gender-affirming care to be legally child abuse. Frankly, this isn’t even a stretch. I want to see liberals pushing to take queer children out of the homes of religious bigots. There should be a form where kids can go online, out themselves as a queer kid living in a bigoted home, and have child protective services immediately come and find them a supportive place to live. Bigots don’t deserve to be parents.

Or how about we pass a law that says trans people can sue cis people who make them uncomfortable in bathrooms. Do you harass a trans person or confront them about being in the “right” bathroom? That trans person should be able to sue you for an absurd some plus attorneys fees for a violation of their rights.

We need to start stripping absolutely every right we can from these animals. This is the only way we will ever see the right stop trying to take away everyone else’s rights. Rights are meant to be a peace treaty - you let me live my life and I’ll let you live yours. The problem is right now, conservatives are fucking over everyone else’s lives, but no one is fucking with conservatives. I want them to feel the fear of their victims. Only then is there any hope of actually declaring a cease fire and ending this game of attacking rights of all sorts.

Is dehumanization a tool of oppression? You’re fucking right it is. And we have some people that are in dire need of oppression. Conservative Christians love to masturbate about being “oppressed.” It’s about damn time they learned what real oppression felt like.

Honytawk@discuss.tchncs.de on 22 May 07:54 collapse

I believe in treating people the exact same way as they treat others.

It is the most neutral stance you can have.

A_norny_mousse@piefed.zip on 21 May 21:19 next collapse

What’s that got to do with equality?

These people are suspiciously concerned with what’s going on between other people’s legs.

cranakis@reddthat.com on 21 May 21:23 next collapse

I’m curious how they’ll handle enforcement. “Please present your genitals for inspection before entering”

OwOarchist@pawb.social on 21 May 22:03 next collapse

Oh, this type thinks they “can always tell”.

Thing is, they can’t. Trans people pass as cis pretty often, even to transphobes. And they’re constantly ‘transvestigating’ people who are actually cis.

What this will actually accomplish is license to harass (and, yes, probably attempt to inspect the genitals of) anyone who’s even a little bit gender non-conforming. It will mainly hurt cis women and cis men who, respectively, don’t look feminine enough or don’t look masculine enough. Functionally, it’s just another way to enforce gender conformity.

meco03211@lemmy.world on 21 May 22:34 next collapse

I like to hit 'em with a few photos of ALL trans people including ones like Buck Angel and have them pick out who they think is trans or not. They always fail.

Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it on 22 May 06:25 collapse

It’s hillarious when they don’t can’t see the difference and they either give confidently the wrong answer or internally panic lmao

magnue@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:28 next collapse

A court will handle that.

sem@piefed.blahaj.zone on 22 May 10:35 collapse

They are trusting that society will harass any and all women who don’t look feminine enough. It is social control.

answersplease77@lemmy.world on 21 May 21:52 next collapse

equality and human rights commission discussing bathrooms is an insult to all people whose human rights is to live under slavery, lawless war zones, traffickings, torture, aprthied, ethnic cleansing, and dictatorships that oppress and jail dissidents indifinitely without trails.

SuiXi3D@fedia.io on 21 May 22:02 next collapse

THEY JUST HAVE TO PEE!

deegeese@sopuli.xyz on 21 May 22:05 next collapse

Just more TERFs being awful.

Zedstrian@sopuli.xyz on 21 May 22:09 next collapse

War is peace, freedom is slavery, ignorance is strength, and discrimination is human rights.

SailorFuzz@lemmy.world on 21 May 22:16 next collapse

wheesht?

nialv7@lemmy.world on 21 May 23:20 next collapse

… says Equality and Human Rights Commission

1984 Ministry of Truth type shit

grimpy@lemmy.myserv.one on 21 May 23:23 next collapse

how about no more segregated toilets, full stop?

frongt@lemmy.zip on 22 May 01:28 collapse

Wish granted. All toilets are open concept, no partitions.

IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world on 22 May 02:04 collapse

being back Roman Shittatoriums I’ll bring the communal sponge

TheMuffinMan@piefed.world on 21 May 23:49 next collapse

I’m done living in this shithole.

Not that I ever would, but if I went into the women’s they’d (rightly) tell me to fuck off or report me to staff.

palordrolap@fedia.io on 22 May 00:00 next collapse

There is a solution to all of this. Unitary WCs. Each has one toilet, one sink, at least one method for drying hands and at least one sanitary disposal for non-flushable items. Mirror optional. A toilet brush might also be a good idea.

Communal rooms should go the way of the dinosaur.

That way, anyone, regardless of persuasion, intent or comfort level, can use a toilet in peace. And if they want to invite someone else in for safety, so be it.

All the problems with this solution are excuses, and usually not very good ones.

InternationalHermit@lemmy.today on 22 May 00:22 next collapse

I believe that communal bathrooms are cheaper to build and maintain, hence we still have them, not because anyone enjoys using them.

grue@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:48 collapse

That’s what he said:

excuses, and usually not very good ones.

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 07:04 collapse

he

they

internet accounts are they unless otherwise specified

mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 07:14 next collapse

Especially on Lemmy, where the users seem to fall into one of two stereotypes: ultra-nerdy dudes, and trans/NB people.

Hell, over at !unixsocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone, they may even fit both groups.

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 09:11 collapse

trans/NB people

nonbinary people do fall under the trans umbrella

unless they are intersex in a particular way that they regard their nonbinary gender identity as matching what they were assigned

MajorasTerribleFate@lemmy.zip on 22 May 11:19 collapse

Philosophical question. In a jurisdiction that allows for full government recognition of someone not being either male or female, and if someone was “assigned NB at birth” then remains NB into adulthood… sounds like they wouldn’t meet the technical definition of trans.

This comment isn’t about taking anything away from anyone, it’s about a tiny little thought experiment.

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 17:27 collapse

why would government recognition affect whether theyre trans

but yes, intersex people can be cis enbies

grue@lemmy.world on 22 May 07:39 collapse

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thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 09:13 collapse

i see, does make sense here

it still is good practice

especially that often “he” is used without consideration

frongt@lemmy.zip on 22 May 01:28 next collapse

More frequently it’s individual toilets and shared sinks.

littlewonder@lemmy.world on 22 May 13:27 collapse

Yes. The few times I’ve run into this has been great. I think people who are used to stalls initially feel weird when they hear about it but the toilets in this setup are enclosed with floor to ceiling walls and a door. It’s so much more pleasant.

valtia@lemmy.world on 22 May 06:38 next collapse

Thankfully, there’s an even better, easier, cheaper, and just solution to this as well

Negate the ruling and allow transgender people to use the correct bathroom that is congruent with their gender identity

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 07:03 next collapse

better

just

it is neither of these

its way better than bathroom bans but defintely not better than unitary wcs

it divides us, is heteronormative, and still excludes some trans people (those for whose identity there is no bathroom for (nonbinary people))

unitary wcs eliminate creeps entirely, segregation provides a flimsy superficial defense against some of them

BarneyPiccolo@lemmings.world on 22 May 10:49 collapse

IOW, MYOB.

HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world on 22 May 18:05 collapse

International Olympic washroom, misunderstood yelling ouch bowel

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 06:57 next collapse

Communal rooms should go the way of the dinosaur.

obliterated by high velocity rocks?

rcbrk@lemmy.ml on 22 May 12:17 collapse

evolved with the times into various forms perfectly adapted to whatever their niche may be.

just like pigeons, owls, crocodiles, finches, etc.

smh@slrpnk.net on 22 May 12:57 next collapse

Students already get up to mischief in the shared bathrooms at my college library. Sometimes their “intent” runs contrary to the mission of the college–taking illegal drugs, setting off the fire alarm, making a giant mess with toilet paper everywhere.

A minor lack of privacy (private stalls, shared sinks) can help prevent bigger issues. If someone has a medical emergency (OD, for example) there’s a chance someone notices.

palordrolap@fedia.io on 22 May 17:17 collapse

The problem with that is not the students, or the layout, communal or otherwise, but the unwillingness of the institution to pay a toilet attendant.

smh@slrpnk.net on 22 May 17:48 collapse

We’re in a budget crunch. Last I checked there was an unwillingness to pay for more than 1 custodian. The restrooms get dire.

edit: we do have 2 non-staff ungendered single seater restrooms, but I can’t see anyone approving retrofitting the existing multi-stall restrooms in a way that costs money, arguably decreases safety, and increases pressure on custodial staff.

palordrolap@fedia.io on 22 May 18:09 collapse

The attendant doesn't have to be a custodian. The member of staff with the office closest to each bathroom is now responsible for at least checking that bathroom once an hour. It's a budget crunch. Everyone has to do their part!

And if that doesn't fix the budget crunch within a week or two, the bathrooms are now being checked.

smh@slrpnk.net on 22 May 18:21 collapse

You’re devoting at least 15% of the library sysadmin’s time to bathroom monitoring (the bathrooms are a long walk from the offices) assuming the bathrooms are empty each hour. You’re also requiring them to knock on each locked bathroom door and get a response (currently you can check for people passed out by glancing at feet under stall doors). There’s also the overhead of figuring out who is on bathroom duty when the sysadmin is out sick or working from home.

The budget crunch is at the state level, the library itself has very little ability to change it. We’ve already reduced subscriptions and services and staff to a skeleton crew.

palordrolap@fedia.io on 22 May 18:44 collapse

Tough times require tough measures. Either you find what the students do in there acceptable or you don't. If you don't, someone needs to check, and if not that sysadmin, then it's going to have to be someone even further away.

One alternative would be to have the restrooms be locked and to be unlocked on request. How key management works with that I leave open.

This would be ideal if there was a suite of unitary WCs, because one key per room per person.

Not ideal in the case of emergencies, I grant you, but then, you don't want to be using a filthy restroom in an emergency either, so I guess go the whole way into that and put a chemical toilet somewhere outside nearby. OR the old outhouse with hole in the ground if you can't stretch to that.

smh@slrpnk.net on 22 May 19:19 collapse

Oh! I thought you were suggesting a way to implement unitary WCs. As a way to handle the current bathroom issues, the current solution for my floor is one staff member has IBS and checks in on the restroom approximating their gender about once every 2 hours. The other floors and restrooms have their own idiosyncratic methods.

littlewonder@lemmy.world on 22 May 13:25 collapse

Maybe also a urinal in each? Too many times have I accidentally sat on stray drips from people unwilling to put up a toilet seat in unisex bathrooms.

palordrolap@fedia.io on 22 May 17:31 collapse

I'm leaning towards no. If you're sat on the toilet in a small WC room, that urinal is going to be nearby and very close to face height. Also urinals are only really usable by half the population.

Sanitary wipes might be a better plan. Even better if they can be made reusable, but that could be too much to hope for what with the need for yet another bin, and the propensity for confused people to put things in the wrong one.

Siegfried@lemmy.world on 22 May 01:07 next collapse

Why? I can’t even fit that in the conservative rethorics

SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org on 22 May 06:06 next collapse

Terf island at it again.

Renat@szmer.info on 22 May 06:24 next collapse

I once heard one gender critical person who is against excluding Transgender people from toilets cause they need to pee too. He told he would be confused saying transgender person with passing(MTF) in male toilet. He also have a unsual idea of Passing Licences that in his opinion this licence should require the surgery. I don’t have contact with any transgender person who had a surgery, but some of these that I know and don’t have surgery have 100% passing. Imo stupid idea. Some gender critical people want to ban the surgery.

Maggoty@lemmy.world on 22 May 06:36 next collapse

So, a bathroom ban for the entire UK?

Did you guys see the US speed running a regression arc and decide to try your hand at it?

yermaw@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 14:08 collapse

Pretty much. I think we’re owned by the same media conglomerate as you guys, so it’ll be the same playbook

thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 06:55 next collapse

single sex toilets must be forever prohibited from existing, says actual equality and human rights

MyVeryRealName@lemmy.world on 22 May 09:36 collapse

Why?

PhoenixDog@lemmy.world on 22 May 09:49 next collapse

Just have a bunch of single stalls and sinks. Why do we need gendered bathrooms?

I’m there to take a shit. I don’t care if a woman is washing her hands.

MyVeryRealName@lemmy.world on 22 May 09:52 next collapse

People don’t just wash hands in a bathroom sink. They wash their face, groom themselves, admire themselves, apply makeup, etc.

Also, why waste space with stalls, when you can use urinals instead? I don’t want to wait outside a stall to take a piss.

NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip on 22 May 11:10 collapse

The first thing you named everyone does so it doesnt need to be private.

The second thing is a urinal takes up a stall space so just have more stalls.

After being to places that do this, I can tell you it works fine.

ieGod@lemmy.zip on 22 May 12:54 next collapse

Stalls are not as efficient space, material, or queue wise compared to urinals. For those with penises and the need to pee, urinals are just better. It would be stupid to remove these.

NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip on 22 May 12:58 collapse

Not really no. Because you are now requiring two seperate bathrooms. Urinals dont really save any space, you cannot share it. So one row of lets say 12 stalls floor to ceiling are just as efficient. Only one common area open to the hall way, only one plumbing row (same a a urinal) and only one bathroom.

This system is more effective and just works.

Also, you add as many areas like this as the building requires.

Do you have a urinal at home?

ieGod@lemmy.zip on 22 May 14:02 collapse

Urinals can be packed far more tightly than stalls, so no they are not just as efficient. Urinals are also optimal for high traffic/volume scenarios, so having one at home is not necessary. They’re also easier to clean and maintain.

TheBlackLounge@lemmy.zip on 22 May 14:46 next collapse

Put urinals in the back of unisex bathrooms. Easy. Not a new idea either.

NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip on 22 May 17:41 collapse

Except they really aren’t that much tighter, nor do I want them to be. Again, you now have two bathrooms so any space savings is lost, if not worse.

Funny to read this as I am at a facility right now with open unisex bathrooms and this is as efficient, because if more women or more men show up it doesn’t matter. The everyone in the sink space is working well too.

MyVeryRealName@lemmy.world on 22 May 19:02 collapse

I don’t want to mog myself in the mirror in front of women.

Also, urinals absolutely don’t take up as much space as stalls.

Dicska@lemmy.world on 22 May 17:55 collapse

Not necessarily in the defense of single sex toilets, but I imagine not all men are gentle, and women (maybe even anyone else) would choose not to get peeked at from above by a nasty weirdo. I know, I know, not like only one gender could do it, but if I had to find a reason why one would want to have single sex toilets, this would be the reason that makes the most sense to me.

Or, you know, people being religious fanatics stuck in the 18th century, but who would be like that in 2026? /s

Demdaru@lemmy.world on 22 May 18:07 collapse

Eeeh, first one may not be that removed from actual risk. If we assume 1/10 of population is perverted, then cutting out hetero folks from perving on opposite sex is cutting that 1/10 to 1/100. So the chance some perv will actually go for it is lower. And this is a bigger issue for women than men, so makes sense to be watching out for that.

In USA that is, in EU we have full size stall doors and walls :|

Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 18:14 next collapse

There are many different forms of sex people can have in public toilets and so restricting them to just one kind wouldn’t be equal.

MyVeryRealName@lemmy.world on 22 May 19:07 collapse

Lmaooo… Best reply to my comment fr

M0oP0o@mander.xyz on 22 May 18:20 collapse

Limited gender washrooms < “Shitter”

Like come on this is not that hard, everybody poops.

FarceOfWill@infosec.pub on 22 May 07:18 next collapse

Surely the legal challenge against this is already started?

The supreme court didnt actually mention toilets, and said changing rooms may work ( if they have privacy rooms)

BlackLaZoR@lemmy.world on 22 May 10:52 next collapse

I’m here for the shitstorm

Atomic@sh.itjust.works on 22 May 11:46 next collapse

It’s so obvious that so many here didn’t even read the article.

This really isn’t about toilets as much as locker rooms. Where each person must go to the gendered locker room for their biological sex. Unless there is an alternative. Such as a “trans locker room”

The whole toilet part is adressed in that most businesses will just remove the symbol for M/F on single stalls and call it a day. And most have a handicap friendly stall, which already is gender neutral.

This is more of an issue for places like hospital’s that are required to have gendered spaces.

some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org on 22 May 11:48 next collapse

I was confused, but then the article was about the UK, where they stupidly did Brexit. Don’t worry, everybody. This is just about people who make dumb decisions.

Etterra@discuss.online on 22 May 12:30 collapse

You say that, but I mean have you looked around here lately? The Bri’ish don’t have a monopoly on stupid.

sturmblast@lemmy.world on 22 May 13:36 next collapse

Why the fuck do these perverts care so much about what people do in a bathroom? How fucking weird

Th3D3k0y@lemmy.world on 22 May 14:47 next collapse

All of this is solved with just using more single occupancy bathrooms. Just an open hallway with rooms and toilets and changing stations. Sinks in the hallway.

zbyte64@awful.systems on 22 May 14:52 next collapse

As a parent of two, this is best for the kids they claim to worry about. It makes potty training much less stressful

AA5B@lemmy.world on 22 May 17:21 next collapse

This is not a bad consequence, better for all of us, even if the trigger is fear and spite

SaraTonin@lemmy.world on 22 May 17:40 collapse

Not allowed. I’ll copy from another post:

No, there’s already rules in place from the previous government which says that all new builds and buildings euch are changing their use must have separate, sex-segregated toilets, unless the building is physically too small for anything other than a single room with a single toilet and sink. You can have gender-neutral toilets as well but not instead

Wren@lemmy.today on 22 May 15:55 next collapse

This is going to make it so difficult to plan out businesses and buildings that everyone will end up with gender neutral bathrooms and spaces. It’s my dream that all those lobby groups who think they’re protecting women will have to shit next to every man, woman, femboy, adult baby, theydy, them, zem, furry and otherkin in the UK.

SaraTonin@lemmy.world on 22 May 17:39 collapse

No, there’s already rules in place from the previous government which says that all new builds and buildings euch are changing their use must have separate, sex-segregated toilets, unless the building is physically too small for anything other than a single room with a single toilet and sink. You can have gender-neutral toilets as well but not instead

Wren@lemmy.today on 22 May 18:04 collapse

From the article:

“The law here is a mess, and clearly many businesses will just go gender neutral to avoid the headache,

Frenchgeek@lemmy.ml on 22 May 17:01 next collapse

Do being a bunch of removed qualify them as being transgender too?

Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 22 May 18:12 collapse

As far as I can tell the UK is the only country in the whole of Europe following America down this specific insane moral and political rabbit-hole.

It’s like they tried to get into the XXI century, failed and decided to go back to their time of greatness, the Victorian Era.

YoureHotCupCake@lemmy.world on 22 May 18:29 collapse

They do have a prominent billionaire who is bribing anyone to take up her anti-trans positions.