Women-only social media app Giggle for Girls taken to court by transgender woman Roxanne Tickle after her account was restricted (www.abc.net.au)
from MicroWave@lemmy.world to world@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 12:01
https://lemmy.world/post/14083921


A transgender woman who was excluded from a women-only social media app should be awarded damages because the app’s founder has persistently denied she is a woman, a Sydney court has heard.

In February 2021, Roxanne Tickle downloaded the Giggle for Girls social networking app, which was marketed as a platform exclusively for women to share experiences and speak freely.

Users needed to provide a selfie, which was assessed by artificial intelligence software to determine if they were a woman or man.

Ms Tickle’s photograph was determined to be a woman and she used the app’s full features until September that year, when the account became restricted because the AI decision was manually overridden.

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Bahalex@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 12:30 next collapse

I have nothing to add, just amused by the fact that a Tickle can’t get a giggle.

FlyingSquid@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 12:45 next collapse

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dumbass@lemy.lol on 09 Apr 2024 13:30 collapse

Hahah beat me to it, that scene played in my head as soon as I read the name.

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muse@kbin.social on 09 Apr 2024 14:05 next collapse

She had GRS, it's just transphobia in pun form

yuriy@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 16:24 collapse

“Hey fuck you for correctly pointing out transphobia, downvote”

What the fuck lemmy, we’re really making “pickle” jokes about a trans woman? Are we fucking chrischan? Grow up.

Sizzler@slrpnk.net on 10 Apr 2024 09:04 next collapse

Stick out of ass, remove it. Everything can be joked about, deal with it.

yuriy@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 14:59 next collapse

Likewise anyone is free to say “that joke isn’t funny”, you deal with it. Fucking snowflake lmao

Sizzler@slrpnk.net on 11 Apr 2024 01:49 collapse

Still laughing at you though.

yuriy@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 04:08 collapse

Meanwhile the jokes you’re defending have already been removed.

Y’know, for the transphobia.

Have fun laughing tho 💖

Sizzler@slrpnk.net on 11 Apr 2024 10:24 next collapse

Will do ta, everything is a joke.

NoIWontPickAName@kbin.earth on 14 Apr 2024 14:20 collapse

I still see it just fine

muse@kbin.social on 10 Apr 2024 17:32 collapse

I bet you have at least one thing you'd turn into the biggest snowflake about if ridiculed for/laughed at. Bigots always do.

Sizzler@slrpnk.net on 11 Apr 2024 01:48 collapse

Is that even a sentence that proves anything? You state " One thing would make you a snowflake if ridiculed"

I mean what are you even trying to say? That trans people are snow flakes for being upset? That’s pretty shitty of you.

Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.de on 10 Apr 2024 12:41 next collapse

Take a look around. See how often it is lemmy.world accounts making transphonic jokes like that and come to your own conslusion.

tsonfeir@lemm.ee on 13 Apr 2024 19:38 collapse

Yeah I thought my pickle joke was funny too. It rhymed for fuck sake.

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demonsword@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 13:06 collapse

congratulations sir, you won this thread! :)

BombOmOm@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 12:50 next collapse

What’s the point of a woman’s only app (or any women’s only space) if they let anyone in simply based on them saying ‘I’m a woman’?

Soup@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 12:59 next collapse

The question you have to ask here is “if anyone can just sign up then how was she noticed, and if they spend any time verifying then how did they not realize she was very serious about her womanhood?”. She’s had gender-affirming surgery and you’re really out here saying “if they let anyone in simply based on them saying ‘I’m a woman’?”.

They’re clearly doing some work here and not doing it very well. And you’re missing very important facts.

imPastaSyndrome@lemm.ee on 09 Apr 2024 12:59 next collapse

Dude, there’s like four sentences and they’re all on this page and it says it takes an AI assessed picture of your face to determine if you’re a woman. Why are people so fucking lazy and snarky?

BassTurd@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 13:20 next collapse

Because she is a woman. It’s really that simple.

john89@lemmy.ca on 09 Apr 2024 21:11 collapse

trans woman*

MetaCubed@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 21:23 collapse

Trans woman = woman, I fail to see your point.

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fiercekitten@lemm.ee on 09 Apr 2024 23:03 next collapse

They are saying that all women — cis and trans — are women. It doesn’t mean or imply that trans women and cis women have no differences.

JCreazy@midwest.social on 09 Apr 2024 23:38 collapse

I must be confused about what an equal sign means then.

PotatoKat@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 00:45 next collapse

Trans women = women

Cis women = women

Cis women ≠ trans women

JCreazy@midwest.social on 10 Apr 2024 00:56 next collapse

I don’t mean to be a pedant but that math doesn’t make much sense.

MetaCubed@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 01:12 next collapse

Could you explain what part of it doesn’t make sense to you? (Or what part you disagree with) Maybe one of us can clarify better if we start there

EatATaco@lemm.ee on 10 Apr 2024 01:38 next collapse

They are trying to say that cis and trans women both fall under the larger group known as women, they just don’t understand math.

JCreazy@midwest.social on 10 Apr 2024 01:49 collapse

I know what they are trying to say, I just don’t think they realize that mathematically it doesn’t make sense.

EatATaco@lemm.ee on 10 Apr 2024 11:00 collapse

Agreed.

PotatoKat@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 16:47 collapse

Literally do not care I’m not in a math class I’m on Lemmy. I conveyed the point and you understood it so it did make sense. Learn how language and communication works.

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 06:12 next collapse

transfone!

yetAnotherUser@feddit.de on 10 Apr 2024 09:26 collapse

False, the ‘=’ is transitive, meaning:

A = B and B = C implies A = C

The symbol you meant to use is the implication arrow: =>

Trans women => women

Cis women => women

Black women => women

Lesbian women => women

This means: If the left statement is true, the right statement must also be true. If the left statement is false, you don’t know whether the right statement is true or false.

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EatATaco@lemm.ee on 10 Apr 2024 11:00 next collapse

I would just use the subset symbol ⊆. I think it makes more sense here.

yetAnotherUser@feddit.de on 11 Apr 2024 08:17 collapse

You’re right, I don’t have that on my keyboard though

Besides, a ∈ A ⊆ B => a ∈ B, so what I wrote is not THAT nonsensical

PotatoKat@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 16:50 collapse

Did you understand what I was saying?

Yes?

Then it’s true. This isn’t a math class in university this is a conversation on Lemmy. You understood the point so my message was conveyed.

Ultraviolet@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 16:51 next collapse

You’re being intentionally dense. Different adjectives can apply to the same noun without implying those adjectives are the same thing. It’s extremely basic grammar.

howrar@lemmy.ca on 11 Apr 2024 04:50 collapse

“X is Y” in English translates mathematically to “X is a subset of Y”

Here’s an example written out in plain English. You can do the exercise of translating it to math terms to see how it makes sense.

  • A square is a polygon
  • A triangle is a polygon
  • A square is not a triangle
afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 05:10 collapse

Am I the same as you absolutely? No? Ok but we are both humans, right?

When assigning things to categories we make lists of properties. So yes there are differences but those aren’t the criteria of assignment. A 90 year old cis woman and a 19 year old cis woman are both still woman despite them having differences.

wjrii@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 13:28 next collapse

Maybe because everything about the space still caters to women’s concerns, and the presumption for a random-ass social media app should be that your appearance doesn’t determine your intent? If somebody’s daily life is being a woman, then why the fuck should it matter which parts they have? Are you also going to exclude gay women, or women who cut their hair short, or women who choose not to have kids? After all, they’re not having all the same issues that long-haired cis-het mothers have.

Not to mention it’s a technologically stupid gate to keep. In what fucking world does it deter anyone who is willing to be dishonest?

john89@lemmy.ca on 09 Apr 2024 21:10 collapse

Sexism.

afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 05:06 collapse

You can still be sexist without an app. It is a great leveler in humanity. No effort at all to hate someone for whatever reason you want whenever you want.

JCreazy@midwest.social on 09 Apr 2024 13:02 next collapse

A waste of everyone’s time. Sounds like entitlement.

inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 13:47 next collapse

It’s entitled to exclude.

honey_im_meat_grinding@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 09 Apr 2024 13:48 next collapse

This is funny when you just look at your profile’s first page and see you’ve made comments like these:

I hate this rhetoric. It implies that this a refular occurence. It is just a man hating comment. If this is happening to you frequently, maybe you are the problem. I am tired of being assumed an asshole just because I am a man. It is sexist. Plain and simple.

So you deny “unproblematic” women regularly experiencing unsafe behavior from men who are entitled and you’re also denying people’s gender identity - otherwise, why would it be a waste of time for a woman’s fight for her right to access women’s spaces? So you’re hateful towards people you perceive to be “men” while complaining about “man haters” elsewhere. Logical inconsistencies in favor of hate is a hallmark sign of right wing extremist views.

JCreazy@midwest.social on 09 Apr 2024 18:02 collapse

That is some fancy mental gymnastics you came up with there. My comment before has absolutely nothing to do with this article. The fact that you went through my comment history to find a marginal strawman just goes to show you are trying to be argumentative. You can disagree with me all you want, it doesn’t mean you’re correct. In fact, nobody’s opinion can be correct.

xor@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 10 Apr 2024 09:54 collapse

It’s not a “strawman” when it’s just quoting an actual comment you made - that’s called getting called out for your toxic bullshit

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fiercekitten@lemm.ee on 09 Apr 2024 23:24 collapse

Or, we can recognize all the reasons that women (cis and trans) want and need women’s-only spaces. This site was claiming to be a space for women — not just cis women. According to the article, the site restricted Tickle’s account after some person there reviewed Tickle’s photo and determined that — because she didn’t look feminine enough — that she was not a woman. That, as well as using AI to determine gender or sex, are both deeply sexist and unacceptable.

Not letting someone be part of a women’s space because they don’t meet someone’s standards of what a woman should look like? That’s bad. That’s wrong. That’s illegally discriminatory. That ends up hurting both cis and trans women, just like bathroom bills do.

homura1650@lemm.ee on 10 Apr 2024 01:31 next collapse

That’s illegally discriminatory.

Under what law? I’m not familiar with Australia, but here the the US, transfolk are just piggybacking off of legal protections against gender discrimination; which were never actually intended to protect trans people.

In most cases, that actually works out fine. If you discriminate against a transwomen, it’s because you think they are a man presenting as a women. However, you have no problem with a women presenting as a women, so you are running afoul of gender discrimination laws. Legally speaking, your problem was discriminating against her for being a man.

In instances like this though, that argument doesn’t apply. Once you get to the “you are discriminating against her for being a man” stage of the analysis, the response is simply “yes, and I’m allowed to discriminate against men”.

It seems like Australia would need to have a law that specifically protects trans people for her to prevail here.

Cypher@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 05:02 collapse

So you would see no issue if they had simply labeled the site as exclusive for cis women?

homura1650@lemm.ee on 09 Apr 2024 13:49 next collapse

I’m not familiar with Australian law, but how do you get to “discrimination on the basis of gender identity” in this case. Wouldn’t the case for that be a trans man trying to join or stay on the app? (Or a cis man for that matter).

It sounds like Tickle’s position is that the app should be discriminating based on gender identity. Her complaint seems more like them discriminating on (vaguely defined policy ammounting to) assigned gender at birth.

Having said that, I suspect their tune will change if a trans man tried joining.

dogslayeggs@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 15:26 next collapse

Having said that, I suspect their tune will change if a trans man tried joining.

Exactly this. I fucking guarantee they wouldn’t let a trans man join and actively contribute.

ChexMax@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 17:56 collapse

Idk. I think a big point of the app is to discuss growing up female. Nothing against trans women, and I Believe trans women are women, but as a cis woman, I think I’d have more in common talking about my past with a trans male than with a trans female. We’d have similar stories of being treated a certain way growing up.

dogslayeggs@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 20:21 collapse

I get that, but I bet the trans woman would feel much more in common with you in how she grew up than me. While you might not feel much in common with her, she would probably feel really comforted to hear your stories that align with what she was feeling.

mdwhite999@lemmy.sdf.org on 10 Apr 2024 08:33 next collapse

Discrimination based on gender identity is basically saying I have been treated differently due to being transgender. She is saying that she as a transgender woman is being treated differently to a cisgender woman. Or that is at least how it works in the UK. I would presume Australia is similar

MisterFrog@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 22:32 collapse

You can get your sex changed on your birth certificate in NSW according to Wikipedia. Not a lawyer, but I’m gonna guess the app is shit-out-of-luck on this one if their birth certificate indicates they’re a woman.

supangle@lemmy.wtf on 09 Apr 2024 15:17 next collapse

people actually don’t have a job

deegeese@sopuli.xyz on 09 Apr 2024 19:18 collapse

It sounds like you’re trying to argue nobody should fight discrimination while there are still ditches to dig and toilets to scrub.

Kedly@lemm.ee on 09 Apr 2024 17:44 next collapse

This thread was fated to be a dumpster fire from the instant it was created

Edit: 6 people dont seem to understand what an unholy combination it is to merge: Transphobia, Misandry, AI, and somewhat silly names on the internet

drmoose@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 05:37 collapse

I’ll explain my down-vote as per your edit: people don’t like thread meta discussions. It’s unproductive, mean and frankly just lazy. Keep that on reddit.

Kedly@lemm.ee on 11 Apr 2024 11:52 collapse

Lmao nah, I think I’ll keep commenting according to my own values and you can keep commenting according to yours. Thank you for explaining your downvote though!

drmoose@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 13:30 collapse

You’re free to do whatever you want just pointing out that down votes don’t necessarily mean you are being bullied by bigots or whatever you’re imagining so conclusively here. Your comment might just suck 🙄

Kedly@lemm.ee on 11 Apr 2024 13:48 collapse

Did I say I was being bullied? And tbh, if we’re gonna use up and downvotes to determine whether or not my comment sucks, it definitely doesnt look like it sucks

Edit: I imagine its one of my more upvoted comments because I’m not alone in entering this thread, seeing the dumpster fire the comment section was in, looking at the contents of the thread starter and then being like “Yeah, ok, that makes sense”

drmoose@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 16:56 collapse

You’re conflating subjective and objective here my dude

Kedly@lemm.ee on 11 Apr 2024 17:17 collapse

I dont think those words mean what you think they do

drmoose@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 18:39 collapse

I don’t think you think what you think you think

Kedly@lemm.ee on 11 Apr 2024 19:00 collapse

This back and forth has gotten so silly I cant even be defensive/annoyed anymore, this is legitimately funny now xD

Iceblade02@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 19:58 next collapse

Now make “Guffaw for Guys” lol

john89@lemmy.ca on 09 Apr 2024 21:09 next collapse

I don’t understand.

It’s okay to discriminate against men but not transgender women?

Plague_Doctor@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 00:52 next collapse

Trans women are women.

EatATaco@lemm.ee on 10 Apr 2024 01:24 next collapse

I down voted, not because I disagree with the claim, but because it doesn’t make any sense in the context and just reads as a knee-jerk dismissive response of a valid point.

Plague_Doctor@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 14:31 next collapse

It’s true though. Gender is a performance, and as a woman your womanhood is always under scrutiny from everyone else. You can get your identity as woman taken from you if you don’t “look woman enough”. Which if you say have more masculine features, cut your hair short as a cis woman you become less woman. For example Butch lesbians are actually the most often de-womanized. Same goes for less masculine men. It’s a box no one fits into perfectly and having certain genitals doesn’t include or exclude you from either.

This person wanted a safe space where they wouldn’t have to deal with cis straight men. Which makes it that if men want inclusion in such spaces they need to be better.

Another question for you all, why as cis men do you want inclusion in these spaces?

Sizzler@slrpnk.net on 10 Apr 2024 14:40 next collapse

Why do you want to take away a safe space from cis women?

Same reason, you feel entitled to not be discriminated against.

EatATaco@lemm.ee on 10 Apr 2024 14:45 next collapse

Another question for you all, why as cis men do you want inclusion in these spaces?

Strawman. I’ve seen noone in this chain that says they want access to the space, and I certainly don’t. I get why they want this space, and I get why she, as a trans woman, wants access to this space.

I just don’t believe I’m in a position to tell these women/girls what they should be comfortable with, and who they have to allow into their club. You’re the one dictating what they should and should not be comfortable with. So I find your question to be a projection.

I just think the poster pointing out that this is an argument over why some sexual discrimination is good, while others is bad, is a good point. And this I was pointing out how your post just ignored what I believe to be what is obviously their point.

ZK686@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 02:29 next collapse

So, what about those who are born with a uterus? Where can they go? What if they decide, only those who were born with a vagina at birth, are women and we want only those to be part of our organization? I mean, are they wrong?

force@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 03:24 next collapse

What if they decide, only those who were born with a vagina at birth, are women and we want only those to be part of our organization?

I mean it’d be like barring someone for having only one kidney, or barring people who have an extra toe, or barring people who are a certain skin color. It’s a seemingly random thought pattern and generally makes you a dick. Discrimination based on organs/body parts is wrong. What if they decide that having a big nose makes you not a woman? What if they decide having big ears or short legs or being too tall makes you not a woman? Better yet, what if a trans woman gets a uterus transplant and now has a uterus? Is that when they change the rules to still somehow exclude trans women? Because that’s what usually happens.

Trans women still face the discrimination that women face, many of the same problems that many women face, and identify as women, so they shouldn’t be excluded from a safe space for their group on the basis of one of their organs not being typical. When you get to the point of going out of your way to remove trans women who have already been accepted into the community, established themselves in the community, and fit in with the community, where other members of the community interacted with them like they would any other woman and viewed and accepted them as women, you’re not concerned about “women”, you’re concerned about your own personal insecurities and taking it out on others. That’s the point where you’re just trying to pick the specific criteria that excludes the group that you don’t like.

Plus many cis women have no uterus, some weren’t even born with a uterus, so you’re excluding a large portion of the people you’re claiming to provide a safe space for.

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:41 collapse

They bar people who are missing limbs from sports. You can’t get on the football team or basketball team if you missing an arm, the reasons why should be obvious.

Fal@yiffit.net on 11 Apr 2024 07:51 collapse

People missing limbs are not barred from sports. Wtf are you talking about

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 08:01 collapse

Alright find me a one armed or legged nba player. I think semantics arguments are absolute filth but lets play this out for posterity.

Fal@yiffit.net on 11 Apr 2024 08:14 collapse

They’re not barred. They simply can’t compete. What is the competition that having a vagina at birth? What’s the competition? What are the rules?

Or is it arbitrary barring of people from spaces based on characteristics that have absolutely nothing to do with ability.

But to answer your question, here en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thomas_Gisborne_Gordon

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:40 collapse

Time to start an app for xx chromasome havers only

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:39 collapse

You’re talking about gender expression as opposed to biology.

As a cis man the only point of wanting inclusion is to either A demonstrate how gender identity being subjective is an easy way to exploit systems, or B to be one of few men smart enough to have access to a bunch of women in a female safe space. One of these is informative, the other is predatory.

zbyte64@awful.systems on 10 Apr 2024 14:51 collapse

“trans women are women” is pointing out this isn’t about men vs women but the given sex at birth.

EatATaco@lemm.ee on 10 Apr 2024 15:04 collapse

We all accept that trans women are not cis women. The obvious point by the poster was why is it okay to discriminate against men but not trans women?

zbyte64@awful.systems on 10 Apr 2024 15:24 next collapse

I’m just pointing out the obvious difference between the two categories: one is based on gender the other is based on sex. It’s like asking: “if they’re allowed to discriminate on gender, then why not this other instance (that is based on sex)?” But without making what is in the parenthesis explicit - when someone responds “trans women are women” they are saying what is in the parenthesis.

EatATaco@lemm.ee on 10 Apr 2024 16:39 collapse

So it’s okay to discriminate based on sex, but not gender? I don’t see how this really addresses the point.

zbyte64@awful.systems on 10 Apr 2024 17:43 collapse

I’m not directly addressing whether it’s okay but that there are categorical differences in the examples given. We might as well ask why we can’t discriminate based on hair color, since that too is categorically different than gender. That being said, bathrooms discriminate based on gender and not sex, so maybe ask why people think that is okay.

EatATaco@lemm.ee on 11 Apr 2024 00:22 collapse

I ultimately disagree, because one could easily argue that they are discriminating based on biological sex, so in both cases the discrimination is exactly the same, and the question remains consistent categorically as well.

But even if we disregard that point, then the answer should be easy “because they are categorically different and thus the reason discriminating against one category is okay and the other is not is xyz.

You haven’t answered their question, you just shifted what you believe the question is precisely about, rather than actually address the question itself.

zbyte64@awful.systems on 11 Apr 2024 03:13 collapse

It should be obvious that I don’t agree with the question because of what I perceive to be a categorical error.

CileTheSane@lemmy.ca on 10 Apr 2024 17:37 collapse

Happens in sports all the time.

UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 14:56 next collapse

Real /r/unpopularopinion moment.

I think the thing that the TERFs ultimately miss is that this person was initially welcomed in as a woman and treated as a woman by her peers. She did not disrupt the community or harass any of the participants, until she voiced support for Trans Rights.

It was at this point that a handful of moderators decided to interrogate her on her original gender and use that as an excuse to boot an active and in-good-standing member.

So she wasn’t removed for “not being a woman”. She was removed for “disagreeing with the political views of the admin”.

Anyone familiar with Reddit politics should be able to sympathize.

ZK686@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 02:26 next collapse

I don’t understand? Reddit politics is ultra liberal, they would eat this women’s app alive for discriminating against the trans.

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:37 collapse

Nah cuz in practice a bunch of dudes will flood it with dick pics saying but I’m a woman too I identify as one.

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:37 collapse

That’s literally how it always goes is if you don’t like x persons politics you are a bad person.

PuddingFeeling907@lemmy.ca on 10 Apr 2024 18:42 next collapse

Yes you’re right the transphobes are taking over here

ZK686@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 02:27 collapse

Lol…what? I’ve read like 3 comments saying that the app is in the right, the overwhelmingly majority are siding with the trans…

ZK686@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 02:23 collapse

I define a woman as a female who has a uterus, how should I define them?

Silentiea@lemm.ee on 11 Apr 2024 02:46 next collapse

I mean personally I figure some way that doesn’t exclude anyone who’s had a hysterectomy, but

Random_German_Name@feddit.de on 11 Apr 2024 04:47 next collapse

Biological gender: A Person with two X-Chromosons

Social Gender: Anyone who wants to be a woman

Fal@yiffit.net on 11 Apr 2024 07:49 next collapse

There’s no such thing as biological gender

FlyingSquid@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 09:04 collapse

What about someone who has Swyer Syndrome? What is their “biological gender?”

medlineplus.gov/genetics/…/swyer-syndrome/

Random_German_Name@feddit.de on 11 Apr 2024 10:28 collapse

Male

FlyingSquid@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 10:31 collapse

So you are male even if you have a complete set of female sex organs and no male sex organs?

Literally the only way to determine ‘male’ or ‘female’ is a DNA test?

We’ve never been able to determine that before Flemming discovered chromosomes in the late 19th century?

That’s really weird, because the etymology of the word male traces it back to the 14th century.

Now I’m not math expert, but I’m pretty sure 14 comes before 18.

Random_German_Name@feddit.de on 11 Apr 2024 11:51 collapse

So you are male even if you have a complete set of female sex organs and no male sex organs?

Biologically yes. At least according to my definition, but thats a different discussion.

Literally the only way to determine ‘male’ or ‘female’ is a DNA test?

Biologically, yes.

We’ve never been able to determine that before Flemming discovered chromosomes in the late 19th century?

In the 19th century we assumed, that social and biological gender are the same and ignored, that basically every definition of „male“ or „female“ at the time had exceptions and wasn‘t applicable to everyone.

That’s really weird, because the etymology of the word male traces it back to the 14th century.

I am surprised it doesn‘t traces back even further. People believed in all kind of shit back then. Thats no argument.

Now I’m not math expert, but I’m pretty sure 14 comes before 18.

That doesn‘t make sense in the slightest. By that logic the earth is flat, because the first models of a flat earth were published before the first models of a round earth.

FlyingSquid@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 11:54 collapse

Why do you get to unilaterally determine biological definitions when science is based on consensus?

Also, from where did you obtain your doctorate in genetics?

Random_German_Name@feddit.de on 11 Apr 2024 12:04 collapse

As you may have guessed I don‘t have a doctorate in genetics, just like you, I assume.

I don‘t get to determine biological definitions, but the definition of a biological sex, if such a thing exists, is still heavily debated in science. Therefore a consensus couldn‘t be reached so far. I just argued for the definition, that sounds the most logical to me. If you have other definitions or models I am open always open to learn.

FlyingSquid@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 12:14 collapse

but the definition of a biological sex, if such a thing exists, is still heavily debated in science.

Maybe so, but your definition has nothing to do with said debate, which has moved far beyond it in terms of the science of genetics.

www.nature.com/articles/d41586-018-07238-8

sapiens.org/…/biological-science-rejects-the-sex-…

medicaldaily.com/challenging-gender-identity-biol…

www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.adi1188

sciencebasedmedicine.org/the-science-of-biologica…

That’s a small sampling.

Incidentally, if you do base biological sex solely on chromosomes, birds have four sexes. What shall we call the other two?

Random_German_Name@feddit.de on 11 Apr 2024 12:58 collapse

Thanks for the sources.

The first article doesn‘t invalidate my thesis. It explains the difference between sex and gender.

The second article argues against the sex binary, which I never defended. I view „male“ and „female“ (in the context of the biological sex) as terms for a combination of chromosomes. The article still was absolutely worth reading, thanks.

The third article actually lists a bunch of stuff I didn‘t know about. I‘m going to look into that.

FlyingSquid@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 09:03 collapse

So if a woman has a hysterectomy, she is no longer a woman? What is she?

ZK686@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 22:43 collapse

That’s silly and you know it. She still had one to begin with. That’s like saying “if a dude cuts off his penis, he’s no longer a dude!”

FlyingSquid@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 23:40 collapse

I define a woman as a female who has a uterus

Your definition. Has a uterus. You said nothing about a female who had a uterus.

And you haven’t defined female.

ZK686@lemmy.world on 12 Apr 2024 23:49 collapse

Oh brother…

FlyingSquid@lemmy.world on 12 Apr 2024 23:51 collapse

It’s not my fault that your definition excluded women who had a uterus at one time but didn’t later.

How about women who have two X chromosomes but were born without a uterus? Not women?

ZK686@lemmy.world on 15 Apr 2024 02:30 collapse

Oh brother…let’s just agree to disagree…it’s obvious what side of the issue you’re on…

FlyingSquid@lemmy.world on 15 Apr 2024 09:49 collapse

The side where scientific definitions of women include things like women with two X chromosomes but no uterus?

prof@infosec.pub on 10 Apr 2024 04:16 next collapse

While I certainly agree with you that discrimination based on sex is unacceptable im most contexts, I believe that gender exclusive spaces, unless they hinder people directly, sometimes are a good thing.

My dad is a mental health professional and founded a weekly ‘only-men’ self help group. He found that some things they talked about there wouldn’t have worked with women involved. That group existed for about 5 years or so and helped quite a few struggling men.

So yeah, unless there’s any maliciousness involved, I’d argue that gender exclusiity is not bad in every context.

afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 04:50 next collapse

That’s a bit different. A little private group is not a for-profit company. The difference between not being invited to a family only event when you aren’t family and not being allowed into a restaurant chain because of your race.

prof@infosec.pub on 10 Apr 2024 11:18 collapse

The group I referenced had a paid membership. Scale that up and make it digital and you may end up with a gender exclusive social media app.

I get what you mean though, but I feel there’s a bit more nuance than what you imply.

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 06:03 next collapse

I remember back in high school I had a teacher in an all male classroom because it was a stem field but for kids like an introductory course. A girl showed up in the 2nd year and he sort of joked about how it changes the dynamic cuz now all the guys will need to flex for her so the point of the class was sort of ruined. I remember that class was actually fucking amazing because you would make friends with guys regardless of your social circle or wealth background. Like I talked to multiple demographics and we all treated each other equally and we were all there to learn the trade. It was an amazing experience that I’ve never found anywhere else, especially not any circle where there were women. Hell even guys who were in that class there were a few if you met them outside the class it was just different. I made some close friends there where we kept spending time together outside the class that I otherwise would not have met but others when they got back to “the rest of the world” that hierarchy set back in and they couldn’t bring themselves to talk to you on that level anymore. Women invading male safe spaces under the guise of glass ceilings or whatever was extremely toxic for men, it’s as if men started barging into women’s bathrooms honestly saying it’s a glass ceiling to their right to stare at women in their own private moments. Stupid example but it’s all I could come up with.

The point is I would love to find another environment like that and even I wish I looked for more like that as a kid and to have appreciated it for what it was more at the time. Men need to learn to see each other as brothers and not as opposition, that’s the only way we get out of this mess is to unionize properly. I think we had it once but we lost it because of this fucking propaganda painting men as inherently predators.

9488fcea02a9@sh.itjust.works on 10 Apr 2024 13:26 next collapse

So… Men act like dicks when there is a woman around or when they are back in “the rest of the world”? At which point their sense of brotherly love and cameraderie disappear? How is that a woman’s fault?

How is that the fault of, “fucking propaganda painting men as inherently predators”?

Sounds like a problem with that group of men…

I have tons of male friends who dont “flex” or act like dicks when they are outside of an all-male setting

I’m not against men’s clubs, btw… But the idea that men cant be toxic outside of a men’s club is a terrible premise for a men’s club

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:09 collapse

You a guy?

CileTheSane@lemmy.ca on 10 Apr 2024 17:33 next collapse

Women invading male safe spaces under the guise of glass ceilings or whatever was extremely toxic for men, it’s as if men started barging into women’s bathrooms

So the class wasn’t a “men only” class, it just was a class women generally weren’t interested in. And a woman deciding she is interested was the same as men barging into women’s bathrooms.

Jfc, who are the snowflakes again?

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:13 collapse

The men. I’m a woman.

CileTheSane@lemmy.ca on 11 Apr 2024 15:36 collapse

Oh, so was your entire story a lie too?

AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 11:10 collapse

It’s not a male safe space if the purpose is to learn. No one gets to have a “safe space” to gain advantage over others. That’s not what female safe spaces do.

I mean… safe from what? What did the women do that changed the dynamic?

endhits@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 15:29 collapse

If women have gender exclusive spaces, men also should have them. Women have invaded male spaces for decades.

iegod@lemm.ee on 10 Apr 2024 17:50 next collapse

‘Invaded’ lol what. Dude the boys club is a real thing. And it’s everywhere.

Cethin@lemmy.zip on 11 Apr 2024 05:14 collapse

In pretty confident this person would agree with you. They’d also say women shouldn’t be allowed there. They don’t want the boys club to go away and think it’s being threatened because women are allowed in the workplace or whatever.

AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 11:08 collapse

There is a vast difference between men getting together to vent and talk, and men getting together to make decisions that affect everyone and preserve power amongst themselves.

The minute it is the latter, it no longer qualifies as a men’s space. Women don’t want to invade a genuine men’s space. And women don’t want to invade a men’s space in order to exploit and prey upon men.

afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 04:47 next collapse

Seems like you do understand it.

But fear not, if you want a website full of only men there are plenty out there.

tatterdemalion@programming.dev on 10 Apr 2024 10:20 next collapse

I’m not familiar with discrimination laws in Australia. In the US there are exceptions in the Civil Rights Act (1964) for “private clubs” though I don’t think courts have consistently defined what that means.

I’m very curious to hear how this case turns out under Australian law. Personally I think it’s counterproductive to exclude trans women from a women-only social club. But if a US court ruled this social club was in fact a “private club” then they could legally discriminate in whatever way they desire, be that by excluding men or trans women.

CileTheSane@lemmy.ca on 10 Apr 2024 17:28 collapse

Does that include protected classes? For example: can they exclude minorities?

tatterdemalion@programming.dev on 10 Apr 2024 18:15 next collapse

I believe so, but I’d have to do a little more research to say with certainty. There is a particular supreme court case that serves as an example. See Tillman v Wheaton-Haven Recreation Association.

Crashumbc@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 22:18 collapse

A “private” club can exclude protected classes. Like the other poster mentioned, what constitutes “private” is a grey area.

Back in the 90s Augusta National Golf Club was still excluding blacks even though they hosted the Masters… ( They finally gave in )

zbyte64@awful.systems on 10 Apr 2024 14:42 next collapse

Discriminating against men is based on gender, discriminating against trans women is based on sex (at birth).

UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 14:51 next collapse

More the reverse. If you say “Girls Only” and then exclude a girl, you’ve violated your own terms of service.

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Silentiea@lemm.ee on 11 Apr 2024 02:42 next collapse

Everyone hear that? Once you get a hysterectomy, you’re not female any more!

force@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 02:56 next collapse

I define female as one who has a uterus…

And that’s where you and literally anyone with any medical knowledge whatsoever disagree. There are plenty of people who are assigned as girls at birth who have no uterus – sex characteristics are far too complex for just a binary “boy/girl” label, and it’s not as simple as “no uterus = boy, uterus = girl”. sometimes, a baby can be labelled as any gender and it’s up to the parent to decide which. What a “woman” is is pretty arbitrary and the only accurate classification is entirely dependent on what the person identifies as.

And that’s just not even considering the fact that hysterectomies exist, meaning a lot of generically cis women also don’t have uteruses.

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:34 collapse

it comes across as semantics at best cuz they want people to stfu. Like some people you will not convince them that someone born with a penis and testicles is a woman. Like you can reduce it to only some with xx chromasome but people are gonna go into like the xxy or whatever like the disorders.

jordanlund@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 04:31 collapse

Removed, transphobia.

PuddingFeeling907@lemmy.ca on 10 Apr 2024 18:40 next collapse

Your account is a day old so I’m thinking you’re arguing in bad faith and are likely transphobic.

john89@lemmy.ca on 11 Apr 2024 19:24 collapse

🥱

ZK686@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 02:10 collapse

Why not just create a “trans” app and make your own people happy too?

Sizzler@slrpnk.net on 11 Apr 2024 10:47 next collapse

Not even a separate app, just add a tick box for people who are trans-inclusive.

john89@lemmy.ca on 28 Apr 2024 16:50 collapse

Sounds like a good idea to me.

RagingRobot@lemmy.world on 09 Apr 2024 21:41 next collapse

I think she will win this. They didn’t require a genital photo so what’s even their proof? Arbitrary requirement anyways. Rules like that only leave people out. I understand the want for a space like that though. I hope this woman finds a space where she can feel safe.

SendMePhotos@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 03:26 next collapse

I think she’ll lose. Because regardless of the issue, a private company can terminate service at any time, for any reason.

It’s also been upheld that a graphic artist who wants to design wedding websites can refuse to work with same-sex couples. What this means is, again, a company can pick and choose who to serve.

Cypher@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 04:58 next collapse

The case in the OP is in Australia. Your story is from the US and has absolutely zero bearing on any likely outcome.

afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 05:01 next collapse

What I found most interesting about that case is she was arguing that Christianity was homophobic and got the Supreme Court to agree with her.

It was a bit of a floor dropping out from underneath me moment when I figured that out. How many years have I pointed out that being LGBT and a follower of Christ are inconsistent, and if you are LGBT with Christian friends you are their project? No one listens to me. And here one of them goes, spends all this effort and time, and manages to convince the court system that yes being a religious Christian means that you hate gay people.

I doubt I have convinced anyone of this in my entire life, she made it an officially recognized fact. And this event will never be untrue since it did happen! For as long as records exist we will have a record of the moment where the US government agreed with me about what Christianity believes.

CAVOK@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 13:41 collapse

What I found most interesting about that case is she was arguing that Christianity was homophobic and got the Supreme Court to agree with her.

Cool, now do the rest of the religions. Is there a religion that isn’t either homophobic, transphobic or misogynistic?

afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 14:29 next collapse

UU is consider a religion at least for tax purposes.

SendMePhotos@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 17:15 next collapse

The Satanic Temple.

Silentiea@lemm.ee on 11 Apr 2024 05:00 collapse

FSM?

mdwhite999@lemmy.sdf.org on 10 Apr 2024 08:29 next collapse

This case is being heard in Sydney, Australia not the US so a case from the US is not relevant in determining the outcome

tatterdemalion@programming.dev on 10 Apr 2024 10:23 next collapse

That’s a US Supreme Court case. The OP case is in Australia.

SendMePhotos@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 17:14 collapse

Oh, I didn’t even realize lol. Oops.

DillyDaily@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 12:28 next collapse

I mean, given what’s happening with the women’s only art exhibit at the MONA right now, this woman definitely has a legal leg to stand on even with this being a private company.

Even if it’s just a matter of false advertising (if the app means cis women they should say cis women, not say “women” and then go out of their to exclude an entire group of women) or compensation for being given access then having access removed.

SendMePhotos@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 17:13 collapse

Fair enough. Just making a prediction. It’s a weird subject imo like, can you make a black only site? Can you make a white only site? Kind of the same territory, you know?

DillyDaily@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 04:28 collapse

If you’re a private entity and there is a specific reason that having non-black people in the group would be detrimental to the purpose of the group, yes, in Australia you can make a black only space.

For example, if you want to create a support group for POC to discuss trauma around being subjected to racism, to ensure you create a safe space, making the space POC only is not only legal, but often the more ethical choice for this group.

Want to create a social and dating app for queer women to meet other queer women? What purpose would it serve to let straight people into that group?

There is difference between public spaces, that must allow access and entry to all, and a private organisation that caters to specific demographics, and being freely open would completely defeat the purpose of the private organisations goals.

I’m not an alcoholic, I don’t personally know anyone who has struggled with alcoholism. Why can’t I go to an AA meeting to talk about my feelings on alcoholism? Obviously, Because that’s not helpful, it has the potential to be harmful to the people who attend because they have lived experiences with alcoholism. I could argue I’m being discriminated against because of my medical history, but I’m not being discriminated against, I’m just not being catered to, because I don’t have an unmet need in this specific situation.

SendMePhotos@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 17:33 collapse

Good example. Now what if someone identifies as a POC? Example

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DillyDaily@lemmy.world on 12 Apr 2024 03:13 collapse

Again, it depends on the purpose of the group you’re creating, does this person in question face discrimination for their perceived race? Then a support group for people who have faced discrimination for their race may be the right place for them, assuming the intersection of having “chosen” to present as a race they’re not doesn’t create an unsafe space for the other group participants.

However if your group is for people who have grown up POC or been raised in a non-dominant cultural group to discuss shared experiences, then obviously someone who identifies as POC later in life would not be served by that group, so would not be eligibile to join that group.

There are circumstances when even if you fit the criteria of the group, you may still be excluded due to the way various identities and experiences intersect, or because your personal actions are not serving the group.

It’s not discrimination to be told you can’t use a private service because the service can’t serve your specific needs, and your personal circumstances reduce the groups ability to serve its other members.

BreakDecks@lemmy.ml on 10 Apr 2024 14:07 next collapse

Citing the most egregiously frivolous case imaginable to make this point…

SendMePhotos@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 17:12 collapse

I’m not agreeing with the verdict, just making a prediction.

UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 14:57 collapse

a private company can terminate service at any time, for any reason

Not after they’ve accepted payment.

ZK686@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 02:31 collapse

Why not create an app for trans women?

Sorgan71@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 04:55 next collapse

Wow an app based on gender descrimination is being sued for gender descrimination. I’m shocked

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 06:04 next collapse

You know what this means though? It means that no one ever needed to push back against it at all just not engage in it themselves. Cuz they just eat each other in a vacuum. Without some enemy to band together against like the boogeyman of boogeymen whitey, their inner chaos is all they’re left with with no enemy to project it on, so they eat each other and everything just crashes and falls apart. No one needed to do anything, not even complain, just look at it in amusement and take another sip of their coffee and go about their day thanking god that’s not you.

cosmicrookie@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 06:23 next collapse

You are arguing that communities can’t exist unless they unite against a foe?

Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 07:01 next collapse

Ozymandias moment

PoliticalAgitator@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 03:06 next collapse

His community can’t and if he was capable of imagining other people’s lives, he wouldn’t be far-right in the first place.

John_McMurray@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 04:45 collapse

Growing up means recognizing someone can understand someone without empathizing.

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:33 collapse

Their name checks out though.

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:32 collapse

No my argument is some people all they have in them is “fight against a foe”. It means if you don’t present yourself as a foe they’ll walk right past you, it’s like a trex. It’ll only chase something that moves, so because they are always in fighting even with no opponent they will make one within themselves because those are the only people looking for a fight.

Like they have 0 interaction with people who aren’t interested in a fight. Take note that some random accused me of being far righter hoping I would take their bait. It’s pathetic at best. It’s truly an example of the snake eating its own tail.

NoIWontPickAName@kbin.earth on 14 Apr 2024 14:29 collapse

T-Rex damnit. Hyphens are important

PoliticalAgitator@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 12:50 collapse

Did you forget you’re not in your sleazy little far-right bubble?

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:10 collapse

I’m not a right winger. I just see an ouroboros when I see it, it’s the snake eating itself.

dulce_3t_decorum_3st@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 10:58 next collapse

Bit redundant, no?

PoliticalAgitator@lemmy.world on 15 Apr 2024 12:18 collapse

Blantant lie.

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 01 Jul 2024 09:25 collapse

Epic name

Tylix@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 20:42 collapse

But they’re right though. Trans women aren’t women.

Sorgan71@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 21:28 next collapse

Trans women are women if people understand the word women to include trans women. More than that, unless you want to lift everyone’s skirt before adressing them then you might as well just call the people that look like women women and the people that look like men.

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Silentiea@lemm.ee on 11 Apr 2024 02:39 next collapse

Listen, mate, threatening to kill people is a pretty shit way to interact with anyone. If you don’t want to date someone with a penis, maybe say so up front. No one is trying to trick you, and no one is trying to lie to you. They’re just trying to live life, same as anyone.

force@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 02:45 next collapse

“If I found out a woman I dated was trans i’d probably kill her”

What the fuck is wrong with you? People like you need to be put in a mental asylum. You are not fit to be in society and your mental instability is a threat to the public. Your kind are the type that shoot up a mall when your crush rejects you.

Duamerthrax@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 04:15 next collapse

Guy thinks there are Shi Pei Pu walking around everywhere.

yeah@feddit.uk on 11 Apr 2024 07:30 collapse

Woah. I see where you’re coming from with this one but abhorrent behaviours/speech does not mean someone is mentally unwell. Please reach for insults that don’t punch down on another group.

dulce_3t_decorum_3st@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 10:56 next collapse

It doesn’t mean they’re not mentally unwell.

Also, where was OC ‘punching down’ on the ‘mentally unwell community’?

What does that even mean?

yeah@feddit.uk on 11 Apr 2024 12:03 collapse

It means one should call someone a dickhead with shit posturing and abhorrent morals without saying they need to “be put in a mental asylum”.

The idea that people who act or think in ways that are disgusting or violent are “mentally ill” and not just wrong is a large facet of the stigma attached to being mentally ill.

yeah@feddit.uk on 11 Apr 2024 12:50 collapse

Surprised at the downvotes. Which bit of not attacking a minority while defending a different minority is the problem?

jordanlund@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 04:28 collapse

Removed, transphobia, threats of violence. Temp ban.

Serinus@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 03:11 collapse

unless you want to lift everyone’s skirt

And sometimes even if you do.

Ms Tickle’s counsel Georgina Costello KC told the court her client has a birth certificate stating her gender as female and has had gender affirming surgery.

Nobody’s going that far just to get one over on your stupid fucking app.

ripcord@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 22:29 next collapse

Yawn

Duamerthrax@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 04:14 collapse

Words have meaning as defined by people. They are subject to change.

deft@lemmy.wtf on 10 Apr 2024 05:20 next collapse

Wanna know how I know y’all suck?

Tickle is taking on Giggle for Girls and not one witty joke?

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 06:11 next collapse

Something something tickle my pickle while I giggle.

reverendsteveii@lemm.ee on 10 Apr 2024 17:34 collapse

well shit maybe making a good joke about this is harder than we first assumed

Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 07:05 collapse

There’s low hanging fruit, and then there’s the shit on the ground that wild animals eat to get drunk.

Asafum@feddit.nl on 11 Apr 2024 02:26 next collapse

Which is still a good time for us animals. :P

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:33 collapse

You misspelled “dog eating its own poop”

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 06:05 next collapse

Time to identify as a cis lesbian and not as a trans woman.

DillyDaily@lemmy.world on 10 Apr 2024 12:28 collapse

How does that even work?

I mean, to be a cis lesbian also implies being a cis woman…

Taohumor@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 07:12 collapse

I just call you a bigot if you deny me my identity and treating me properly as if I was that identity. I am a cis woman. You will treat me like one because I will not be misgendered or treated with misogynistic bullshit.

DillyDaily@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 12:02 collapse

I’m not trying to be rude, I’m trying to understand.

As far as the language is concerned, I’m just trying to understand how a trans woman could be a cis lesbian, when my understanding is that being cis and being trans are mutually exclusive.

Am I missing something?

Lhianna@feddit.de on 11 Apr 2024 16:15 collapse

There’s nothing to understand, they’re just talking bullshit.

butsbutts@lemmy.ml on 10 Apr 2024 14:21 next collapse

you dont have to put on the red light

proton_lynx@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 02:14 collapse

those days are over

LillyPip@lemmy.ca on 10 Apr 2024 22:36 next collapse

Wait. We’re unironically calling social media for women Giggle and then we’re surprised it might be sexist? April first was like a week ago…

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Asafum@feddit.nl on 11 Apr 2024 02:22 next collapse

Maybe I’m not ultra liberal enough, but my hot take is the only one you can sue for that kind of discrimination is employers and the government itself.

They can choose to ban whoever they want, even other women if it’s a private business.

Edit: I’m also not ultra smart as I initially missed that this is in Australia. You know us US folks, there’s only the United States no other countries exist.

Bronzie@sh.itjust.works on 11 Apr 2024 04:31 next collapse

You, I like you

MolochAlter@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 08:59 collapse

The problem with that stance is that you can’t refuse service based on protected characteristics, and afaik that includes access to a space, hence why the “gentlemen’s club” died but the country club did not.

I’m all for reintroducing these practices since the people clamouring for them are also going to be the ones fucked over in the end, but I am also white (by American standards anyway) and male, so there’s basically no downside for me.

It would be a monkey paw levels of funny to reintroduce the legal ability to self segregate as a means to “protect” women and minorities, only to see a complete shitshow as women executives are cut out of meetings taking place at men only spaces, and black people are even more segregated out, etc.

Obviously, it would be horrendous for the average sane person who doesn’t want any of this, but it would make for a really funny few years for the more brainrotted among us.

NoIWontPickAName@kbin.earth on 14 Apr 2024 14:26 collapse

The thing to outlaw there is the doing business thing not the gathering thing.

That would be an interesting fight though

Cethin@lemmy.zip on 11 Apr 2024 04:59 next collapse

Except they do have it to their own, including trans women. How is having trans women excluding women having it to their own?

drmoose@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 05:34 next collapse

nah man, even the concept of self-segration by sex feels severely outdated in 2024. Just don’t do that, it’s not very hard.

NoIWontPickAName@kbin.earth on 14 Apr 2024 14:24 collapse

Do you think that men and women don’t have their own unique set of problems and might want to speak just amongst themselves about it?

I am deliberately not picking a side on the trans thing because I don’t care what you call yourself: man, woman, pink and purple candystriping mud licker.

However to assume that cis and trans lives are the same is just incorrect.

Trans people have much different problems and so do cis people.

Everyone is looking at this the wrong way to me, the social groups really just seem like a form of group therapy to me.

You meet up and talk about problems that you are all experiencing.

drmoose@lemmy.world on 15 Apr 2024 02:03 collapse

Nothing in this implies that there are any benefits in segregation. In fact I’d argue that diverse groups are much more likely to solve problems successfully.

NoIWontPickAName@kbin.earth on 15 Apr 2024 14:20 collapse

People don’t like being vulnerable in front of everyone, that’s why we have group instead of “stand on the corner, revealing your vulnerability to everyone.

drmoose@lemmy.world on 15 Apr 2024 14:38 collapse

That has nothing to do with the current topic. You can still have groups of people with common interests and goals without segregating yourself by one variable 🙄

NoIWontPickAName@kbin.earth on 15 Apr 2024 14:55 collapse

Sometimes that one variable is important.

Who are you to tell other people who they have to be vulnerable about

drmoose@lemmy.world on 15 Apr 2024 16:52 collapse

Nah we know for a fact that self segregation has no value in a healthy society. Instead of applying this pointless bandaid it’s better to educate and raise up the society to a more healthy level.

NoIWontPickAName@kbin.earth on 15 Apr 2024 17:54 collapse

I’ll tell you what, you go find a bunch of rape survivors and then tell them they have to accept anyone into their group and talk in front of them.

Lmk how that works

Aux@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 08:40 collapse

Sexism is rife in incel communities.

CosmicCleric@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 03:50 next collapse

Ms Tickle’s photograph was determined to be a woman and she used the app’s full features until September that year, when the account became restricted because the AI decision was manually overridden.

I’d love to know the story behind the manual overriding.

Silentiea@lemm.ee on 11 Apr 2024 04:47 collapse

Apparently she defended trans people in a conversation, someone complained, and moderators got involved and manually overrode the ai. Paraphrased hearsay.

SpaceCowboy@lemmy.ca on 11 Apr 2024 14:21 collapse

If the AI is the good guy in a situation, you gotta be doing something very wrong.

ZK686@lemmy.world on 11 Apr 2024 22:58 collapse

Welcome to 2024, women can’t have their own things anymore… (and I’m talking about REAL women, you know, the individuals have two X chromosomes).