Should I meet the guy I met from online cam modelling a couple yrs ago?
from hayyy@thelemmy.club to nostupidquestions@lemmy.world on 17 Feb 17:47
https://thelemmy.club/post/44496719

We talk on and off and he keeps bringing up seeing each other irl but idk.

Edit to add/ hes quite easy to talk to like I know him kinda easy and I’d say we get along ok. He said he loves me…

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SolidShake@lemmy.world on 17 Feb 18:01 next collapse

Nope

garth@sh.itjust.works on 17 Feb 18:19 collapse

Nothing good can come of this.

blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 17 Feb 18:30 next collapse

Online cam modelling you say?

<img alt="" src="https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/pictrs/image/075143c3-f422-41d8-8507-83c467caeab3.webp">

Jokes aside, that’s a bad idea. You wouldn’t be asking here else

FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world on 17 Feb 18:33 next collapse

Parasocial relationship… could be a stalker… also bad basis for a relationship (be thst friendship or something else)

zxqwas@lemmy.world on 17 Feb 18:42 next collapse

Sounds like you don’t really want to.

Stormy@thelemmy.club on 17 Feb 21:19 next collapse

Horrible idea, especially if he’s repeatedly asking or bringing it up, no.

one_old_coder@piefed.social on 17 Feb 21:31 next collapse

Do you love him?

hayyy@thelemmy.club on 17 Feb 21:32 collapse

I don’t think so…

lemeteque@slrpnk.net on 18 Feb 09:41 next collapse

Are you open to a relationship with him? If not, does he already know that?

Why would you want to meet up? Why wouldn’t you want to meet up? Talk about it with him.

Mac@mander.xyz on 18 Feb 10:46 collapse

He’s pressuring you to meet.
He told you he loves you.
You’re uncomfortable.

Suuuuuuper sus. Definitely don’t meet—in fact, cease contact.

Hopefully it’s just parasocial and not something much more sinister.