Why do so many people delete their posts?
from madjo@feddit.nl to nostupidquestions@lemmy.world on 06 Jun 23:16
https://feddit.nl/post/35767632

I’ve seen this happen a bunch of time now that people just ask a question and it’s deleted a day or so later. Do they delete the question themselves, or is that some automatic thing? If they do it themselves, why?

*edit*

Thanks for the great answers so far. Very insightful. Please keep them coming, I’m curious to more points of view.

#nostupidquestions

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givesomefucks@lemmy.world on 06 Jun 23:28 next collapse

Usually (but not always) if a mod removes it, it shows up in the mod log.

But lots of people don’t get the answer they want and delete it. Part of that is you can’t disable replies. A month from now someone might see this post for whatever reason and you’d get a notification.

That’s probably playing into it

madjo@feddit.nl on 06 Jun 23:38 next collapse

A month I can kind of understand. I let mastodon auto delete my month old posts. But a few days? I don’t know…
But you’re right, it could be that they didn’t like the answers they got. That does make the most sense. Like that kid who’s dating that Muslim girl, and pretty much all of the reactions sided with her point of view.

magnetosphere@fedia.io on 07 Jun 00:07 collapse

Dammit, he deleted that one? I thought I gave a pretty good reply… although, yes, I sided with her, too.

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 00:11 collapse

Your answer was really good! But yeah, he deleted that post.

magnetosphere@fedia.io on 07 Jun 00:11 collapse

Thank you!

queermunist@lemmy.ml on 06 Jun 23:43 collapse

Or they do get the answer they want and now they don’t need to get anymore answers.

madjo@feddit.nl on 06 Jun 23:46 collapse

I’d then update the post thanking every one for the answers provided, and that you don’t need any more.

queermunist@lemmy.ml on 07 Jun 01:35 collapse

For them spaces on the internet are just a question and answer machine - why would they thank us NPCs?

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:54 collapse

Fair assessment. Thank you, fellow NPC :)

jumjummy@lemmy.world on 06 Jun 23:33 next collapse

user deleted their post

/sorry I had to

madjo@feddit.nl on 06 Jun 23:41 collapse

😄

Yeah that would be a great joke on my part, too. Getting my answers and just deleting the question in a day or so.

I’m not intending on doing that though. So, if it does happen, it’s not because of something that I did.

Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone on 07 Jun 05:30 collapse
ptz@dubvee.org on 06 Jun 23:33 next collapse

Often, they just spin up a disposable account, post, and delete the whole account w/content after they’re done. It’s annoying AF and incredibly selfish. For a while, it was the same person doing it, though not sure if that’s still the case.

Regardless, those people have ruined things for everyone (especially legit new users) and I will not engage with accounts newer than 30 days. Lemm.ee evacuation notwithstanding, I kinda wish other people took a similar stance and maybe these people will knock that off.

madjo@feddit.nl on 06 Jun 23:44 next collapse

I agree. It’s annoying and selfish. I often go back to older threads I’ve participated in to see other people’s points of view, to see if maybe I missed something. But to then see “permanently deleted” or words of that effect, that’s just sad. I can’t learn from those. No one can.

TeamAssimilation@infosec.pub on 07 Jun 01:03 collapse

OTOH, it’s understandable given the endless apettite tech has for profiling people. The Fediverse is not Big Tech, but Big Tech wants all the data anyway, and given its open nature, it will get it eventually. Temporary accounts are a way to make it a bit harder for Big Tech, at the cost of making it worse for legitimate users.

If the Fediverse had some protection against data greed, maybe less people would be wary of leaving a long data trail. The best it can do so far is using nicknames and multiple accounts.

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:57 next collapse

Good point!

WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works on 07 Jun 16:10 collapse

big tech will just scrape in realtime and at the point you deleted it they have already produced all kinds of profiles about it for you

null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 07 Jun 00:59 next collapse

Imagine being a legit new user and being shunned because your account is not 30 days old.

Besides which, I find the expectation that people should create an account and use that in perpetuity very frustrating.

I have a bunch of accounts and change according to my mood. Nothing nefarious or antisocial, I just don’t want a big silo of comments. My accounts are not an extension of my identity.

ptz@dubvee.org on 07 Jun 01:04 collapse

I didn’t say I had a problem with any of that. But spinning up a burner, posting, and deleting everything afterward takes other people’s conversations with it (and those don’t currently come up in search results because the post is deleted). Granted that’s a platform limitation, but it is what it is. Posting from various alts but leaving things intact…go for it.

Imagine being a legit new user and being shunned because your account is not 30 days old.

That’s part of my complaint against the ones doing that “hit it and quit it” bullshit; it makes people wary of interacting with new accounts.

CaptDust@sh.itjust.works on 07 Jun 01:04 next collapse

Happy cake day ptz!

ptz@dubvee.org on 07 Jun 01:08 collapse

Gracias!

Ledericas@lemm.ee on 07 Jun 02:55 next collapse

they do it all the time on reddit, i have no problems with it. its only a problem when they know they are wrong and leave it up to stir shit up.

Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone on 07 Jun 05:28 next collapse

You check the age of every account you interact with? Can you see this easy or you’re opening up each account?

ptz@dubvee.org on 07 Jun 05:33 collapse

I’m the dev of Tesseract.

New accounts have badges that show their age if they’re between 0 and 30 days old (among other tricks up my sleeve)

Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone on 07 Jun 05:41 collapse

Ah I saw that In your account, it took me two minutes to load it up because of my shitty internet and partly the connect client so I was sure there’s no way you would check each time.

I wish I could do site wide badges for stuff like that but at the end of the day I only ever recognise the one person who give me the shits on lemmy and I have them flagged haha.

Everyone else I figure is out with good intentions until they prove otherwise

ptz@dubvee.org on 07 Jun 05:47 collapse

Unrelated to the thread, but love your username (took me a minute to get it)

Also, yeah, love the “good intentions until proven otherwise” attitude. Two years here have nearly beaten that out of me (despite me knowing better).

jwr1@kbin.earth on 07 Jun 02:45 collapse

Happy cake day!

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madjo@feddit.nl on 06 Jun 23:53 next collapse

Can’t reply to Some Amateur’s removed comment, just want to say, I enjoyed your contribution! And that could indeed also be a valid reason

charade_you_are@sh.itjust.works on 06 Jun 23:54 next collapse

I sometimes think about what I just wrote after I wrote it. I then go back and read it and then remove it because it was lame.

madjo@feddit.nl on 06 Jun 23:57 collapse

Makes sense for comments, but for posts to for instance this Sub-lemmy, I mean community?

charade_you_are@sh.itjust.works on 07 Jun 00:01 next collapse

Well shit, read that title wrong. Moving along …

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 00:03 next collapse

No worries, mate! I should’ve been more precise in my wording.

charade_you_are@sh.itjust.works on 07 Jun 00:06 collapse

Nope, it was very clear and you have no blame. Thanks though!

magnetosphere@fedia.io on 07 Jun 00:04 collapse

I get “posts” and “comments” or “replies” confused all the time. You are not alone!

charade_you_are@sh.itjust.works on 07 Jun 00:07 collapse

That’s exactly what happened lol

Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 01:24 collapse

Sub-lemmy

Technically the term is “community” here.

Subreddits are to Reddit as Communities are to Lemmy.

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:41 collapse

I realized that after I posted it, and edited it afterwards, but you’re absolutely right, when I typed it, it already felt wrong :)

SomeAmateur@sh.itjust.works on 06 Jun 23:57 next collapse

Idk why but when I see deleted by creator I think it’s funny to imagine God personally zapping it from existence but they still leave that so everyone knows it was them

Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de on 07 Jun 10:10 collapse

the divine voice of the lord booms down from the heavens: “CRINGE
a clap of thunder vaporizes the blasphemer where they stand, leaving nought by a smouldering pile of ash

PP_BOY_@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 00:05 next collapse

It contradicts my current argument

ReallyActuallyFrankenstein@lemmynsfw.com on 07 Jun 00:10 next collapse

Sometimes I do it for comments, and it’s just because I don’t really like what I wrote. I read it and it’s just banal, and I’m like, “you’re not moving the discourse forward at all.”

What annoys me are people who did that to thousands of their posts after leaving Reddit. They’re their posts, they have the right to do it, but I’m like, c’mon, Reddit isn’t suffering from it. They’re selling the data for the same price with or without, and they have all the backups. No, all the users who are googling a one-place-on-the-Internet solution to their extremely specific problem are suffering.

I think that’s like getting angry at your boss and taking it out on your family.

throwawayacc0430@sh.itjust.works on 07 Jun 00:10 next collapse

Perhaps its something embarassing or potentially very political which they don’t want to remain on the internet forever.

I guess we can add a rule stating that “By participating in this community, you agree to give permission that all your posts/comments can be archived” like under Creative Commons rules. And have a bot automatically archive it.

But then again, there’s an argument that this violates privacy.

some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org on 07 Jun 00:10 next collapse

I assume because they didn’t stand by their comment or made a mistake. I misread a title on a post an hour ago. Rather than delete it, I edited and stated the mistake and put strikethrough on the text. I don’t delete the record; I amend it.

CrayonDevourer@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 00:18 next collapse

I’ll delete my replies when I’ve been eating too many crayons that evening and the reply ended up being dumb as dog shit…

Though, I’d consider deleting my posts now because AI is scouring this place and training on it I almost guarantee.

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:58 collapse

Which color has the best flavor?

CrayonDevourer@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 16:19 collapse

Brilliant Bees brand.

Forester@pawb.social on 07 Jun 00:40 next collapse

Lack of commitment

null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 07 Jun 01:01 next collapse

Because they later felt embarrassed by their question.

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southsamurai@sh.itjust.works on 07 Jun 01:23 next collapse

deleted by creator

throwawayacc0430@sh.itjust.works on 07 Jun 02:28 collapse

deleted by creator

forgot the italics lmao 😁

Lasherz12@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 01:25 next collapse

Probably multiple reasons. If it’s a throwaway account they may want to cover the tracks. If it didn’t get a response they were looking for, they may delete and recreate to avoid the double posting rules. They may have posted on the wrong account, or maybe the answer was so obvious they were embarrassed.

BagOfHeavyStones@piefed.social on 07 Jun 01:42 next collapse

I've done it a few times over the years. Usually it's because I've written something I thought was funny or insightful but the hive mind disagreed and voted it down or worse. Sometimes I just don't fit into the social norms.

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:53 collapse

{{{LumpyPancakes}}}

BagOfHeavyStones@piefed.social on 07 Jun 10:11 collapse

Are you mad, Jo?

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 10:14 collapse

No, just crazy. :)

I was giving you a textual hug, if you didn’t know what {{{ }}} means.

BagOfHeavyStones@piefed.social on 07 Jun 10:18 collapse

Aah that's kind. I didn't know that one. Thought it was some sort of formatting gone wrong.

Thanks, I appreciate it.

Grimy@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 01:43 next collapse

If you are talking about posts where people lay out their problems and ask for advice, it is probably to avoid getting doxed.

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:52 collapse

Ah yes, why didn’t I consider that? That’s indeed very much a possibility.

FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au on 07 Jun 01:47 next collapse

Almost every person I’ve had an argument/discussion with who goes through my past comments to try and find things to use against me when they’re losing has been someone who goes back and deleted all of their comments. I don’t think that’s a coincidence.

scroll_responsibly@lemmy.sdf.org on 07 Jun 02:05 next collapse

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madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:51 collapse

[still upvoted]

dumbass@leminal.space on 07 Jun 02:16 next collapse

Sometimes I’ll delete a comment if someone’s already made the shitty joke or I’m too stoned and misread the original post, it’s usually the second one tho.

sandflavoured@lemm.ee on 07 Jun 02:41 next collapse

Perhaps Lemmy should offer an option to delete the OP and retain comments?

I would also like to see some of the comments even after the original post is deleted if the post author is ok with leaving them up.

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:56 collapse

That would be nice.

webghost0101@sopuli.xyz on 07 Jun 02:45 next collapse

I tend to do the much more efficient system of writing an entire essay to then decide to delete it before posting.

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:51 collapse

I recognize that strategy. I’d be typing out an entire epistle, only to delete it all in the end, because I figure I wouldn’t add anything to the discussion, or I don’t feel good enough to comment on something :)

Pilferjinx@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 03:06 next collapse

Sometimes I’ll submit a comment that’s too jaded and cynical that I don’t want to expose others to after some hindsight.

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SreudianFlip@sh.itjust.works on 07 Jun 04:28 next collapse

Well I was going to explain but

MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca on 07 Jun 05:10 collapse

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Rivalarrival@lemmy.today on 07 Jun 09:58 collapse

[baleeted]

MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca on 07 Jun 13:53 collapse

FLAGRANT SYSTEM ERROR

Ceruleum@lemmy.wtf on 07 Jun 16:33 collapse

EXTERMINATE EXTERMINATE!!

Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 07 Jun 04:32 next collapse

It was with great pain that I recently deleted something like 50 to 100 of my own posts. They were all political. Lots of great discussions. But we live in a time where having the wrong kind of history on social media could make you a target either now or in the future. I’m sure a lot of that is still floating around one way or another but if I can reduce any spotlights on my ass it’s something I felt I had to do.

Since then I haven’t deleted anything. I try to keep my posts non-political. In my real life I am now focusing on bettering myself. I’ve given up on trying to change the country or anything like that. It can all they to ash. I’ve ran out of fucks to give.

But hey, I’m contributing on !loweffortmemes@crazypeople.online again, so there’s that.

1984@lemmy.today on 07 Jun 06:17 collapse

You dont use your real name on Lemmy so I dont see why your history matters here. I could understand it on linkedin, which is why its a super cringe platform also, but here? I dont see a problem.

I like Lemmy because it can be genuine and real, unless posted on a instance that moderates away opinions the moderators dont agree with.

You can go back and find opinions in my history you wont agree with. But thats because i dont try to look a certain way, and I dont change my opinions to look good to others.

I think everyone should do the same. Be who you are. Reflect on feedback, maybe you are wrong, but if you dont think so, dont change yourself.

Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 07 Jun 12:19 collapse

What I still post here is still genuine. I’m just biting my tongue about certain topics. No different than one would do while at work.

1984@lemmy.today on 07 Jun 12:44 collapse

You shouldnt. Post and be downvoted. As long as you are not intentionally trolling anyone, it shows strength of character to stand up for what you believe.

Its very different from work where you are not free to do what you want, because your entire paycheck is based on going along with the charade. You dont have to do that outside of work. :)

Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 07 Jun 14:22 collapse

Downvotes are not what I’m afraid of. I shouldn’t have to explain this to someone with your username.

1984@lemmy.today on 07 Jun 15:28 collapse

Ok I understand. There is no way someone connect what you write here with your real identity. Only your instance even sees your ip. And your internet provider I guess.

Ilixtze@lemm.ee on 07 Jun 04:36 next collapse

Me reading my posts from a week ago: “Fucking hell, I used to be so cringe back then!”

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:48 collapse

It’s that quick for you? I either immediately cringe, or it takes years to fester in my brain and then suddenly it’s my brain tripping me up with “remember that stupid comment you made to this person years ago? CRINGE! CRINGE FOR ME, MINION!”

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otacon239@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 05:08 next collapse

Half the time, it’s because I don’t read the original comment closely enough and realize that my point no longer makes sense, but I usually only do this if it’s less than a minute or two after posting.

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:45 collapse

That makes sense for comments, but what about posts to a community?

Etterra@discuss.online on 07 Jun 07:10 next collapse

I always assumed it was because either deleted because it was a bot post, or they self-deleted because they got down voted and got mad about it.

madjo@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 09:43 collapse

A bot post is another possibility indeed. I hadn’t considered that.

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jagged_circle@feddit.nl on 07 Jun 13:50 next collapse

Personally the app I use sucks, so I realize I commented on the wrong thread and I delete the duplicate

skullgiver@popplesburger.hilciferous.nl on 07 Jun 14:27 next collapse

To prevent annoying trolls from digging through my post history, mostly. I’ve seen people do this on Lemmy, one person even had a stalker that would go server to server to reply angrily to their posts because he felt “wronged” somehow. Plus, nobody is reading this stuff after a month anyway, the only readership of old comments is AI scrapers trying to steal my words for their algorithm.

Of course, deleting stuff on Lemmy doesn’t mean actually deleting anything. You can trivially ignore deletion requests as a server and some seem to keep old copies of deleted content.

There’s no automated way to do it with Lemmy so I’ve written my own automation tool that occasionally runs.

WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works on 07 Jun 16:04 next collapse

I’ve seen people do this on Lemmy, one person even had a stalker that would go server to server to reply angrily to their posts because he felt “wronged” somehow.

those need to be reported and banned, their replies mass deleted.

Plus, nobody is reading this stuff after a month anyway,

Because we don’t have a proper (or any) system for subscribing to threads. but if I have saved a link for myself for future reference, it’ll be gone!

I’m just saying, don’t be surprised if people start running instances that disobey deletions

fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 07 Jun 21:23 collapse

I gotta be honest. Idk how there isn’t a removededit for lemmy yet.

smee@poeng.link on 07 Jun 18:25 collapse

5mb tool to delete comments. Also available as an .exe

Feels like smashmouth_heynow.mp3.exe all over again lol

Nachtnebel@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 07 Jun 15:48 next collapse

you should delete this post

[deleted] on 07 Jun 17:00 next collapse
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Crackhappy@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 17:49 collapse

prove it haha ;)

Crackhappy@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 17:50 next collapse

Deleted by creator

Lightsong@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 18:33 next collapse

I’ve done it once asking a question. However once I got my answer and I edited my post with “solved with (insert reply from one of comments)” and people still replied with the same answers for a few days with slight variations. I got fed up with notifications and deleted the post.

LovableSidekick@lemmy.world on 07 Jun 21:41 collapse

I’ve deleted a few comments where I read further in the thread and realized somebody already said what I said, or I interpreted the topic incorrectly and my comment was meaningless, or some other reason I thought it just didn’t add anything. I think I deleted an Ask Lemmy question one time because I almost immediately found the answer myself or decided the question really didn’t make any sense.