Is it normal to be mildly exhausted after talk therapy?
from GrayBackgroundMusic@lemmy.zip to nostupidquestions@lemmy.world on 15 Feb 2026 23:34
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I’ve been to therapists on and off all my adult life. I’ve never felt tired afterwards, or at least never noticed. This time, though? Noticeably tired.

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TribblesBestFriend@startrek.website on 15 Feb 2026 23:51 next collapse

It can. Disclosures: I don’t go to therapist actually but I have

Being in therapy is an highly emotional and intellectual work. There’s a saying in education : 1h of physical work is 1h of your battery, 1h of intellectual work(with intense concentration) is 3h on your battery and emotional work is 6h on your battery. That’s why a kid crying for 1h can fall asleep on you.

There’s no science behind this (IIRC) but the point is that emotional work is energy consuming

GrayBackgroundMusic@lemmy.zip on 16 Feb 13:48 collapse

Huh. Never heard of those ratios but it makes sense they’d exist. I’m a firm believer in spoon theory.

betterdeadthanreddit@lemmy.world on 16 Feb 2026 00:06 next collapse

Happens to me too sometimes. Might be heavy topics that I’m still dwelling on or something I’m feeling better about (but maybe had been losing sleep over previously). Given the time of year, vitamin D deficiency is something else I’d consider but not as my first thought.

watson387@sopuli.xyz on 16 Feb 2026 00:40 next collapse

Yes. Talk therapy can bring up a lot of stress and emotion. That shit can wear you the fuck out.

Pudutr0n@lemmy.world on 16 Feb 02:34 next collapse

yep

sem@piefed.blahaj.zone on 16 Feb 03:05 next collapse

Yes, or majorly exhausted. But you can tell your therapist if you need to be functional after and they will help u out.

HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club on 16 Feb 05:27 next collapse

I would assume so given the mental labor. I’d be more concerned if I wasn’t exhausted after a session.

southsamurai@sh.itjust.works on 16 Feb 06:11 next collapse

Mildly?

My mental health homie, full on coma inducing exhaustion wouldn’t be unusual (well, it’s hyperbolic but you get the point).

There is very little more taxing than the kind of intensive wringer that a serious therapy session can be. Even less challenging sessions can leave people numb, wiped, or otherwise just burnt out.

If you’re doing the work, therapy will at some point be stressful. At the very least, needing nap or a cuddle is totally normal

Fokeu@lemmy.zip on 16 Feb 07:28 next collapse

Yes

itkovian@lemmy.world on 16 Feb 07:30 next collapse

Yup. It is exhausting AF.

trashcroissant@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 16 Feb 09:00 next collapse

Yep, after therapy is usually a 1-2 hr cry followed by a 2-3 hr nap. Either that or I feel fantastic and lighter and super productive. There is no inbetween.

Strider@lemmy.world on 16 Feb 09:05 next collapse

Mildly?!?!?

Nemo@midwest.social on 16 Feb 13:17 next collapse

Pretty normal, in my experience.

Ryoae@piefed.social on 16 Feb 20:43 collapse

Not really. But I am getting awfully tired of engaging in arguments and trying to explain things as best as possible, as my therapist sits there not understanding. That’s the part that’s exhausting me.