PieFed Feed for Apologizing & Explaining Why for 2-Weeks of Absence from Here.
from GreatWhite_Shark_EarthAndBeingsRightsPerson@piefed.social to nostupidquestions@lemmy.ca on 22 Feb 21:03
https://piefed.social/c/nostupidquestions/p/1806241/piefed-feed-for-apologizing-explaining-why-for-2-weeks-of-absence-from-here

I missed a whole 2-weeks here, & was trying to finish posting in each feed, I participated in, a apology & explanation post. Replier asked if it was right place to post it, I replied that it is impossible to find a feed here, to post the apology & explanation to, that reaches all the feeds’ (that I participated in) participants that participated in my posted posts. Moderators started deleting the posts I had finished,
What feed is appropriate?

#appropriate feed? #nostupidquestions #posting apology & explanation for long absence

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cecilkorik@lemmy.ca on 22 Feb 22:03 collapse

Notice how all your removed posts were on Beehaw. Beehaw has extremely strict moderation. This is their reason for existing. It is not personal.

That said, you do not ever need to explain an absence, and it is in fact kind of weird that you feel you need to “finish” things. Nobody is grading you, and it’s very unlikely anyone is even missing you. That may seem cold, but it’s the reality. This is an anonymous internet forum. Nobody is specifically mourning how much they miss certain individuals here on a daily basis or frustrated that a conversation didn’t continue further. That’s just not realistic, that’s not how it works. Maybe that’s how you want it to work but if so, you’re in the wrong place for that. (I don’t know where the right place for that is but I am pretty sure it’s not here)

GreatWhite_Shark_EarthAndBeingsRightsPerson@piefed.social on 22 Feb 22:20 collapse

That said, you do not ever need to explain an absence, and it is in fact kind of weird that you feel you need to “finish” things. Nobody is grading you, and it’s very unlikely anyone is even missing you. That may seem cold, but it’s the reality. This is an anonymous internet forum. Nobody is specifically mourning how much they miss certain individuals here on a daily basis or frustrated that a conversation didn’t continue further. That’s just not realistic, that’s not how it works. Maybe that’s how you want it to work but if so, you’re in the wrong place for that. (I don’t know where the right place for that is but I am pretty sure it’s not here)<<<<<

Sorry, did not think it was weird to do.

Funny you saying it is not like in educational setting, being I am a former facilitator.

The rest, I a not so sure of that, definitely can say that is true for most participants on all Internet communications I have used, but there were some here that are actually very awesome people, to my communications about things like death in our lives. I do think you are going to far with that, especially, frustrated that a conversation didn’t continue further. Maybe, you have a lot more time, experiences here. Do not get me wrong, I have had tons of horrible experiences on anonymous internet. As some of my posts have called it a BLANK communication form.

Questions though Is there anything on The internet that is not anonymous? I mean if someone really wanted to be anonymous, to non-governments participants, then how is one, non-government’s(s’) participant, ever to know who exactly someone is?