Why do children preface with "Guess *what*?!" so much?
from cheese_greater@lemmy.world to nostupidquestions@lemmy.ca on 10 Jul 13:16
https://lemmy.world/post/49268672

Some children are like “Guess what?!” like every other sentence

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Carrolade@lemmy.world on 10 Jul 13:19 next collapse

It’s just fun. Thinking back to my childhood, I think this phase probably comes in around about the time the word “poop” stops becoming the world’s foremost source of hilarity.

Kolanaki@pawb.social on 10 Jul 13:20 next collapse

They can’t fathom that others know stuff that they don’t.

cheese_greater@lemmy.world on 10 Jul 13:21 collapse

Empathy must be learned

Bougie_Birdie@piefed.blahaj.zone on 10 Jul 13:39 next collapse

Children tend to repeat what they hear, so I’d guess they must be hearing “guess what” a lot. I guess it’s a good conversation starter especially if you’re teaching them some fun fact or sharing a pleasant surprise.

Or maybe it’s a call-and-response thing. When someone says “guess what” the listener probably replies with “what?” so it’s almost like a game.

Depending on their age and development, sometimes they say things and don’t really know what they’re saying. My friend has a five year old, and I guess I must have been sharing a lot of stories with him because one day he busts out this gem: “When I was your age, triceratops has three horns.”

owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca on 10 Jul 13:56 next collapse

It creates both a sense of expectation and suspense. As adults, we have a lot more (and more subtle) ways of doing the same thing, but kids are still figuring out the nuances of these things.

Smaile@lemmy.ca on 10 Jul 14:34 next collapse

they’re learning communication skills, ‘guess what’ is a hook and since they’re a kid they’ll abuse it to get attention they want. at least until people (more likely other kids) start making fun of them for it.

cheese_greater@lemmy.world on 10 Jul 14:40 collapse

until people start making fun of them

I always do 👹

sudoMakeUser@sh.itjust.works on 10 Jul 15:23 next collapse

It gets your attention and makes you engage. You say “what?” and now you’re in the conversation vs. them just speaking when you may or may not be paying attention and give a a response.

Foxer@lemmy.ca on 10 Jul 15:38 collapse

People frequently use precursors in order to obtain your attention. It gets more sophisticated as people grow up but children find it effective early on. One of the reasons they are so enamored with it is parents tend to use that phrase with their children quite a bit to make sure they’ve got their attention and the kids just pick it up. So it’s kind of like a baby talk left over

Adult versions are things like 'You’ll never guess what just happened to me" Or “You’re never going to believe this”

cheese_greater@lemmy.world on 10 Jul 16:36 collapse

Or like Sunny:

Guys, Guys, Guys, I’ve got news! I’ve got TERRRIBLE newz…